Is dating a girl who he says is better in bed than you are, but goes back to you because he says that he doesn't need a girl friend right now and that he is damaged goods?
2006-07-18 02:43:42 · 14 answers · asked by roses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont ever even talk with him again
2006-07-18 02:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by ravi s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He keeps "coming back " to me?? PLEASE!!!! First of all this guy she's referring to "was" (not is) dating another girl that was better in bed, who was not married, has no kids, a good job...basically has her **** together. The poor little ol "I'm being used" girl that started this thread is an ex-stripper, is still married, has been telling this other guy she's "getting" a divorce for over two years now, has two small kids, doesn't clean her house, no job, nor has she shown any real interest in finding one, has run-up over $100,000 in defaulted credit card charges (instead of finding a job) which as a result has destroyed her credit etc... etc... On top of everything else she is "very" timid in the bedroom...basically only enjoys missionary style intercourse (boring). This guy she's referring to does have a physical attraction towards her but that's about it...he's been "completely" honest with her and has made it clear they have no long term potential for all of the reasons listed above (and several others). He has NEVER tried to lead her on in ANY way. In addition this guy has broken things off with her numurous times only to have her call/email him to come and have sex with her (while of course she's still married). This guy is single and has dated a few different girls over this two year or so period that he's known miss "poor little ol me" but "has never" been unfaithful to any of the girls he was seeing. Each and every time he's ever dated another girl he's made it absolutely clear to "little ol me" that he's seeing someone else and that he's not going to cheat on them. It's not that he doesn't want a girlfriend right now...he just doesn't want one that doesn't have her **** together! This is "actually" the real story!
2006-07-18 12:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by the real story 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be more worried about you. You must have pretty low self-esteme to let him keep comming back when he's sleeping with someone else who he says is better in bed than you. But if you're stupid enough to let him keep on getting away with it...
I guess that makes him pretty smart (Totally immoral!!! but still pretty smart) and you pretty dumb!!!
2006-07-18 09:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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What do I think about this guy you describe?
I think he is total loser who is USING YOU, and wants to make that clear to you, so that not now or ever, can you make any "relationship" demands or expectations on him.
YA! He's damaged...he's a total loser !!!!!
If you stay with him, you have ZERO self respect.
stw
;)
2006-07-18 09:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a low down jerk and does not deserve any one.
2006-07-18 09:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick his butt to the curb unless you like being used
2006-07-18 09:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you not see for yourself? He is using you!
2006-07-18 09:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by pink_musicgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants to make you jelous or he is using both of you.
2006-07-18 09:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like he's a liar and he's using you.
2006-07-18 09:46:34 · answer #9 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say bye and get away from this weirdo.
2006-07-18 09:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋