Why is it so hard to make a girl happy?
Because women are complex. We change constantly.
2006-07-18 02:46:03
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answer #1
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answered by iambic_chatterbox 4
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The key word in this question is "girl." Most of time, and I really do mean the vast majority of the time, girls don't know what they want and they expect you to know without them ever having to say anything. For a lot of us females, this behaviour is carried on into adulthood. The best that you can do is appeal to what she sounds really adamant about. Anything that sounds like a passing thought or half-assed attempt at emotional maturity is probably just a whim. Be careful though, don't kill yourself trying to second guess her every action or decision. Listen AND understand her, then decide what to do. If you need to, explain what's going on in your mind and why you will or won't do something. Don't give her all the power in the relationship...it's supposed to be a two-way street.
2006-07-18 09:49:10
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answer #2
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answered by Afrodite 2
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Man it's not that hard pay attention to the little things like her favorite color and the get her something that color and tell her you was just thinking of her when you say this because you know it her favorite color, or say she is listening to the radio and hears a song that she really likes buy the CD for her. Little things is what makes a girl happy.
2006-07-18 09:49:01
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answered by jentn2000 2
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It is only hard making a girl happy if you are disingenious. If you have no alterior motives then it should be very easy. If you have taken the time to get to know her by asking questions, showing interest in her life, she'd be more than willing to answer your questions and therein you would know what pleases her.
Not hard, unless you spend most of your time trying to seduce her and the rest of the time ignoring what she has to say. That would make trying to please her a tad more difficult. Have fun.
2006-07-18 09:47:36
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answered by gravelgertiesgems 3
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It is not hard to make a girl happy. If you are with someone and she is not happy, leave.
2006-07-18 09:45:45
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answered by RainCloud 6
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This is simple, and ladies please don't flame me for a rather blunt answer based upon my experiences. The reason you can't make them happy is because they don't yet know what makes them happy. All you can do is to go along for the ride, learn what you can and give to her what you'd want to receive from her. The rest works itself out with time, age and confidence. You'll know the difference when you start dating women, as opposed to girls.
2006-07-18 09:50:42
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answered by TheAdviceGuy 4
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It's not really. It just depends on what type of girl you are trying to make happy and what it means to them to be happy.
2006-07-18 09:45:39
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answer #7
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answered by Anonymous
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You are choosing the wrong kind of girl. Some people are naturally happy and don't depend on others to define them and make them happy'
YOu can also ask your girl what can make her hapy then do that
2006-07-18 09:48:44
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answer #8
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answered by clcalifornia 7
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cause females aint never happy they'll nag u til u snap or til u get down on ur knees and give in. this is what u need to do say NO! not all da time but sometimes girls like when u dont go wit da flow and if u still get mouth from her tell her to get on her knees and take it like a boxer
2006-07-18 09:53:15
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answer #9
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answered by S.P.O.O.N 1
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depend what kind of girl you're trying to make happy.
To make me happy I only need to be listen, to be spolied, and hear him saying I love you... oh and I don't like fights so we never fight....we have been together for 3 months now and wow as the matter of fact today we have another month together.... I just realize that.LOL.
oh and when I said spolied is with nice things like flowers, phone calls, cards lil things that makes me think hes thinking about me.
2006-07-18 09:48:05
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answer #10
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answered by Sweet Papayita :) 3
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