2006-07-18 02:34:39 · 13 answers · asked by jo_raz_1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh,k this i show it works for both you girls and boys.Even if you may think that boys and girls look at different aspects they all look at the same aspects ,it just differs by the one's that they look at first and last on their list.There are many aspects that bot hgirls and boys look at,and trust me aint nobody will disagree with me that people no matter rain or snow do mark people against their set of criteria's.All it takes may sound simple but its actually hard.Cause its love,not baseball.Love is the one thing that humans beings with nomatter how much of technology will never understand.Whatever aspects you look at,they all have to fall and be felt naturally.Dont go on sayin the minute you meet her that she is the best and that she is perfect for you even without talking to her.Thats ridiculous.They all gotta come from the heart naturally.It may seem easy to understand but it aint.Couples that have been together fo rlife will tell you the exact same thing cause even if theres a little bit missing from that someone,in the long term is hard.Some are correctable and the others are just blunders which sometimes result in people suiciding.So, only if you have felt that natural pleasing of each criteria falling into place,dont waste your'e time.Cause we are dealling with love not stock exchange.So,that strange feeling has got to hit before you are in love.
2006-07-18 03:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by 50 cent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. There is no 'right' person for you. There are people who suit you in the present moment and with dedication, honesty, communication, a lot of give and take, compromise, more communication and a lot of luck you can have a wonderful partner.
2. There is no point 'looking' for them - sure you can internet date, go to bars, speed date etc etc but when the time is right there they will be.
3. Its as much about your approach as their's. There are NO prince charmings - but there are an awful lot of frogs that you can learn to love and to live with if you only give them a chance.
2006-07-18 02:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im married to My "right person" and I dont know how you find them it seems like a never ending search sometimes BUT I would say when you Find the "right person" you will just KNOW... I KNEW my husband was the "right" one probably a month or two after I met him it was just a feeling TRUST ME when it happens you will KNOW.
2006-07-18 02:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont FIND the right person...and when a relationship is good, its always the right person. The moment the sh*t hits the pan people start doubting and saying "oh why did I get with this loser". The right person is within yourself...you just enjoy times with others...for as long as you can and you move on.
2006-07-18 02:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You’ll know.
But you have to know the difference between infatuation and love.
The right person, does not really exist, wait hear me out.
Every one is different, there are things we like and dislike
The other may have things you dislike, and things you like.
The good properties you like have to outweigh the dislikes, and are will to accept them for who they are, because it is what makes them.
You have to feel good about the person, and most important they have to make you feel good about yourself.
Help when they see you in trouble, and not ignore you, and visa versa. You have to go the extra mile, they also have to do the same.
If you see more negative then good, then it’s not the right fit.
It’s like a pair of shoes, if it feels slightly uncomfortable at the time you bought them, it will only get worst over time. It’s not a right fit.
2006-07-18 02:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by Juggernaut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right person could be found by making friends and communicating with the people or by the grace of God. ya i am still looking for right man.
2006-07-18 02:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not still looking but usually u fall for someone u work with or meet through work as this is where a lot of our time is (unfortunately) spent! I think u know if u connect with someone. U need someone who is a great friend, understands your perspective on life and who u fancy the socks off!!!
2006-07-18 02:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by cazza34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found a few of the "right person (or people) for me" - how do you chose?? Well, I guess one Im married to and the others Im not - so there ya go.
2006-07-18 02:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stop looking, start enjoying life to the full, and then when you're happy and radiating it, you'll meet the right one for you...
And no, I'm no longer looking I found my prince charming 18 months ago... when I wasn't looking for him.
2006-07-18 02:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by Littlegreydevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Found the right person for me on Match.com
2006-07-18 02:48:50 · answer #10 · answered by Tefi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋