2006-07-18 02:22:52 · 23 answers · asked by *neno* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not that we intentionally do or say mean things, it's just natural for us to be that way,and for some...like me,didn't come from a family with the normal love sharring so in a way we say mean things but mean them as a I love or like you.And it's not that we don't care...either we don't realize it are feel we have to be manly and don't show it
2006-07-18 02:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by inmate_33313 1 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Our expectations of the neighboring sex is often what gets us in trouble.
We do things, and think things, differently than men. Neither group being right nor wrong, finds the other perplexing. Communication comes when we get outside ourselves and think about what the others perspective is based upon.
So, some people are mean, yes, but don't take it personally, that's just the way it is, for now anyway. Watch some comedies, like "Friends" or Jeff Foxworthy stand-up, as the differences are humorously examined.
And then, if your "guy" was truly a bastard, plot his revenge over shots of chocolate syrup with the girls. Or any appropriate beverage. Good luck
2006-07-18 09:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys have a different mentality my science teacher said that guys brains develop slower by 2-3 years so a 13 year old boy has the mentality of a 10 year old.. that makes them immature but thats not the only reason everybody thinks differently but you have to know that not all guys are like that so don't shun them. there could be a great guy for you and because of your mentality towards men it could be ruined
2006-07-18 09:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by girly_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not necessarily so. Sometimes the way a guy thinks is different to a girls and that can come across as mean.
2006-07-18 09:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by Steve B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the guys your associating with are immature boys, not men...much like the one answering above...Pick your friends better.
2006-07-18 09:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by ~Gate~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u mean y do people do mean things and not even care, it's wrong but that's the way the world is 2day
2006-07-18 09:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not only guys.....It's people male or female, and what kind of a person they are. Some people are nicer than others!
2006-07-18 09:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some guys don't know right from wrong.
2006-07-18 09:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by a_poor_misguided_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess we must learn from our mistakes and love ourselves more and spend his low limit credit card.
2006-07-18 09:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by Firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same thought about women too. its human nature to screw others to get on top. for most people . i dont do that.
2006-07-18 09:26:49 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋