I was engaged and then he broke it off without a explenation in the end he told me he slept with another girl and cheated on me and lied about alot of stuff. we have been over for 2 weeks now and now he wants me back I just cant go back after that betrayel, but I dont know what to say to him, any ideas?
2006-07-18 02:22:49 · 21 answers · asked by anonomous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DONT TAKE HIM BACK. it would be a very big mistake honey. he betrayed you once and he WILL do it again. dont be a fool. its a good thing this happen now instead of after you married. you can make a clean break now. DO NOT put yourself in the position to get hurt again. that would be stupid. he DOES NOT deserve you. you can do better and you will find better. things take time. this happen for a reason, its a warning about him, and you need to heed that warning.
i dont think all men like to hurt girls, some men are just selfish @ssholes and they care about themselves only.
2006-07-18 02:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I've noticed this in a lot on idiots. It's because it's all the the brain. Some men are mentally sick and think it is ok to cheat on a girl. And if he gets rejected he breaks her heart. It seems to me that he is a bad boy who is desperate for a naked body, I suggest you delete him from your life and by that I mean change everything you had in contact with him like phone number, online chatting ect. He sounds like an inhuman monster. You will find someone better in life who wont cheat or hurt you in any ways. Don't worry there are lots of good guys out there who don't to that. Trust me as a guy I know.
2017-01-03 00:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by Aliee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your wrong in thinking the guys like hurting gals.. he did a mistake thats why he broke up.. what if he dint say anything at all? it would've hurt you more.. now he wants you back means hez regretting for what hez done to you.. he is aware that hez done a mistake.. now the ball is in your court.. either get along with life and find a better person who you think wouldnt betray you or forgive him and get along.. the answer lies in your hands..
2006-07-18 02:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by $~~BrOKeN~~$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you just don't say a damn thing, I know it isn't easy but move on with your life girlfriend, I've been there and done that and the best revenge is the silent one. And also if he did it once, he would most likely do it again. Take sometime out for yourself and think things threw only you can decide what is best for you.
2006-07-18 02:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by cOMpLiCaTeD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated because he THOUGHT he found something better, apparently it turns out that she wasn't so he wants you back. Absolutely not! Why even TRY to let him do that again. If he REALLY wanted to marry you he would never have cheated or lied! So now, even if you TRY to work it out, you have this thought of betrail and lies he just can never fix. It's too late because of all the heartache!
2006-07-18 02:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by liljewel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter how much it seems that way a guy is never trying to hurt a girl there just syupid sometimes they need to break up but dont know how so they try to use there entire brain power to think of a plan but most of the time it doesnt work
2006-07-18 02:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by EMO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean i maybe only 18 but i have been through alot of heartbreaks but i wouldnt take him back if i were you
2006-07-18 02:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by Lonely18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "good-bye and good riddance." No one deserves to be treated like that. He's obviously to much into himself. Kick him to the curb and keeping looking for the guy that will love and respect you.
2006-07-18 02:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth , that once he showed his true colors that you have come to realize this isn't the type of person you want in your life..
2006-07-18 02:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not easy cause you love him talk to him let him know how you feel don't run back to him give your self time to heal get some counseling with him and be true to your self first only you can make you happy OK love your self love will come to you boo.
2006-07-18 02:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by muffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋