I almost feel like "trying" in finding a companion. I feel like my love life, or current lack there of, can be epitomized in the song "LOVE STINKS".
Do any other women feel like this? I'm 35 and been dating and had boyfriends for 1/2 my life. I guess I don't "need" a man, but it would be really nice to come home to someone every night.
2006-07-18 01:30:32 · 16 answers · asked by Shannon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My most recent boyfriend is still in love with his ex, who doesnt want him. I am in love with him, he doesnt want me. And my ex is still in love with me, and I don't want him.. WTF????
2006-07-18 01:31:55 · update #1
Try a new perfume. The one you currently use, must attract the wrong type.
2006-07-18 01:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by therego2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
K ,k,k,k i understand the problem.No insults but the problem is actually with the female community.Believe it or not,females are very unacceptable of even good guys.Girl,i cant tell you one thing,with your heart,you are the innocent one.First thing is first,that boyfriend of yours who likes or loves somone else is just not going to help the situation at all.He has got to go.I know if you love him that much,its going to be hard but you have to sacrifice the small things in order to achive the real deal.You simply have to let go.Your second step will consist of yourself going on a boy shopping spree.The thing you have to look out for is the way he talks.Girls always are sensitive on the talking and thats what youre meant to look out for.Thirdly make sure that so call song he sang to you when he first metts you is actually rasional and possible.The most you have to date a guy on checkdates are once and a maximum of three.And before you know it,you gonna have a man that loves you and that you love.Remeber one thing love has to come naturally,trying to be in love with someone else is as bad as being single.So my last advice to you girl is to go and do your thang.if you got more problems along the way of your journey in finding the right one,send me a message and i will reply it as soon as possible.They dont call me the lovdoc for no reason.
2006-07-18 09:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by 50 cent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone in your situation wants what they can't have. The grass is always greener. What you need to probably do is remove yourself from the above mentioned people and go out on your own or with people not involved in that circle. Friends from work maybe? Then, just go have fun --- DON'T GO LOOKING. It will find you. Trying to get through that circle (above) is going to be impossible and it's not worth it. Also, too, if you start going out on your own, the ex you DO want, once he sees you are going after "other things in life" --- he may decide he wants you back afterall. You never know!!!
2006-07-18 08:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh!
YOu could make a nice movieabout your story.
All you need is your Bf's ex to fall in luv with you ex, and you'll have a what do you call it? Love pentagon? No love quadrilateral!!!
Do tell me ifyou ever get past his tangled web of love and passion! Eew. I seem so ....tacky! But anyways. This made me smile, and that's something. Although I do sympathize with you. My ex was still in luv with her ex when we were going around, and returned to him, not that I care.
MODIFY: In the script, do toss in a secret admirer as well , now that I come to think of it.
2006-07-18 08:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by shrek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I know the feeling girl.. I'm pusing 30 soon and I still feel like I'm floundering in my love life.. I've been in your situation before. I just say.. just get away for a bit to think about things.. then come back and start fresh. Don't LOOK for a man.. let him come to you.
2006-07-18 08:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by knifelvr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love does not stink maybe you stink in finding the right kind of guy.. don't get tired of looking for the right guy girl because the ratio of guys to women are bigger so definately there are millions of guys who would give you the right kind of love.. try going to wealthymen.com, not only will you end up with a great guy you may even end up with a RICH great guy!
2006-07-18 08:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by steller23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't find a good man because he hasn't found you. Don't give up. Go to places where the type of guy you like will be their.
2006-07-18 08:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lite Boi Fresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come around here Shannon, looks like you could do with a little comforting........and a bit of wild, everything goes casual sex.
2006-07-18 08:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by funeehaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately I have the same problem...I'm 30 and had several bf. but all they want is to have sex with u....no commitments...not even real emotions....now I really need somebody for my own...trip to gether, eat together, party together and to be there for each other...not to worry about his ex... to have a child of the one who belongs to you and cares for you....I'm sick and tired of looking for a right guy....
2006-07-18 08:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there a lotof other fish in the ocean just throw your hook out there and hook one i am sure you wont have any problem at all as for me i am smiming away as fast as i can you sound to confuseing to me.
2006-07-18 08:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋