How do I know who is really right for me? I'm in love with two people and I don't know what to do.?

Question

I recently moved from one city to another to pursue a relationship with this guy. Everything was going good until he decides to go through my e-mails. He discovers that I have lied to him in the past about past marriage and other people trying to to talk to me. He feels that they are lingering situations. There is one particular guy that he was concerned about. I had a friendship and business relationship with this guy. I an effort to try to salvage what we had I contacted the other guy to tell him that I can no longer have ties with him. He turns around and tells me that he is inlove with me and ask how he gets me back. In an attempt to completely brake off the relationship somehow everything got more convuluted and confusing to me. My bf via going through my cell phone records and e-mail finds out about this wants to completely brake everything off. He said I have emotional ties with this guy and can't brake it off with him. However, I am in love with my bf & want to be with him

Answer 1

I was in the same situation once. I called my ex (who is also my first sons father) and told him that I was getting married. All of a sudden he wants me back. Thinking about all the good times we had together, I was actually thinking about it and I got all confusd. I did alot of soul searching and realized that there was a reason his was an ex, and that he hasnt taken care of my son the way he should. My husband on the other hand Loves me and my son unconditionally and why would I want to screw that up? First honey you have to decide within yourself who you want to be with. Then break it off totally with the other. Which on Loves you the way you want to be Loved, Which one is faithful, and will be true to you? Good luck!

Answer 2

Well first of all there is trust issues with the currant BF. Why is his going threw your stuff?Have you already done something wrong or has he?you can't be with someone without complete trust and honesty.
I think you need to take some alone time and figure out what it is that you really want.Do you want to live a lie or do you want the whole package?Do a little soul searching!Whats ment to be will be,but first you have to be sucure with your self.
And if The friend wants you happy and loves you he will support you in what ever choice you make.

Answer 3

I can say nothing else but if you love your boy friend,then you just tell him.I tell you whay,all ya'll need is a lil one on one eye to eye talk.Its kinda like deep and meaningfull talk.Since you did have previous ties,then all you got to do is set things straight with that other buisness partner and tell him that he aint got what you want.With your boyfriend,the talk is going to help ,trust me, they dont call me the lovdoc for no reason.If you do have persisting problems,send me a message and it will be answered as soon as possible.Girl its not your fault that this is happening, its the stress that both the guys are giving you thats the problem,cause once you clean one off,your problems done.

Answer 4

If you are really in love with your boyfriend,than you have to cut off the relationship with the other guy.But you be care full,because you boyfriend dosen`t have trust in you,and you have to give some reason that he will trust you again.If you don`t do that your relantionship it won`t last.

Answer 5

Choose the one who loves you the way HE wants to be loved and he must also be the one who YOU love the way you want to be loved. This is true love!

Answer 6

U need to break up w/ ur bf
why?
he obviously doesn't have trust in u.

Answer 7

My dear
Go for the one your heart truly wants.

Answer 8

Dump them both and move on.