I am 24 and have never had a girl even talk to me, let alone date me, go out with me, kiss me, etc. I see other guys get hit on all the time, while I've been alone my entire life.
This is not a joke. I posted a similar question earlier and some people thought I wasn't being serious.
2006-07-18 01:15:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,
I'm sorry to hear that,
But dude trust me when I say just be yourself,
You will find true love mail me if you need tips etc
Best of luck man!!
2006-07-18 01:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by East Bay Punk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see why you don't like that, but I'm sure you'll come across the right girl.
Perhaps you should ask your friends why they think you can't get a girl
Or you could try a dating site and talk to girls.
You say you've never had a girl talking to you. Have you approached a girl? If she turned you down, did she give a reason?
Use the feedback of the girls you approach to work on yourself, so you will become more attractrive to girls.
If the problem is your appearance/style, don't sweat, there are girls with a similar style out there.
If you're to shy to ask a girl, try to work on that.
Although good things can come by themselves. I've always been very shy and till 18 I've never had a date as well. I didn't consider myself as beautifull and I doubted guys were intersted in me.
But a guy was intersted in me and came after me. We've been together ever since
Good luck :)
2006-07-18 08:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by WiseDragonGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many reasons. One could be how you dress or act. Appearance is a biggie. Depends on how well color coordinated you are and what kind of style you are wearing. Something that's up to date. How you act is also important. You probably are shy. Shy people never get hit on. Look at the guys who are getting hit on. See what they are doing and what they are not doing to give you some ideas. And its usually the guys that's hitting on the girls and just the flirting you see between them. You are a guy so you have to be the one to talk to girls. Girls never walk up to you and ask you for your number. You have to do that. Besides its better to be a guy to talk to girls. Look at it this way if you were a girl and saw a guy that was hot you have to wait for him to talk to you (even if he doesn't). But if your a guy you can just walk up to any hot girl and get her number.
Also check doubleyourdating.com and download the book. It costs money but well worth if your interested in meeting new women. A few dollars could help you find your true love.
2006-07-18 08:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lite Boi Fresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... you are not the only one like that. My friend's brother has the same situation than you. I have nv see you b4 so maybe i can tell you wats wrong with tat guy and you may think abt it.
1. boring man.... even the jokes he tells are not funny and can put you to sleep
2. does not noe how to sweet talk gals... there are some things that gals love to hear from guys eg: you look so sweet.
the moment he seees gals, he keep his head low and keep quiet all the time.
3. Bad appearence... no dress sense.....
4. too stingy.... ask gals to pay on dates
perhaps you should ask the other guy frens for help, i am sure you can change to a brand new popular guy. good luck.
2006-07-18 08:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by christy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because yout not that outgoing or you just havent been in the right places to be hit on. Im 15 and i get hit on some times heck even at home depot. but i dont like it though because i already have a girlfriend and we love eachother so no need fo that attention. Probably its the way you walk or act a certain way. Ask on of your friends(girl) to see what she thinks and try to change it and see if it worked
2006-07-18 08:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by jms_nov28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question that cannot be answered here, without seeing and knowing you personally. There could well be a problem with you, your personality or your behaviour.
Or there might be other reasons. You should see a Counsellor and get some professional help.
2006-07-18 08:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Magic Gatherer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you sit and wait to be approached or do you approach women also? Are you outgoing and confident, or shy and reserved? People tend to be drawn to confidence...and a good sense of humor...
Take a look at the other guys that you see having good results and watch their behavior and their attitude...that may give you a clue...good luck!
2006-07-18 08:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have good hygiene??? That always helps!!!! What kind of clothes do you wear??? Do you have a pleasant personality??? Do you still live at home with your parents, or on your own??? Why don't you try volunteering somewhere??? Do you go to church??? It might be worth a try.
2006-07-18 09:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U NEED TO GET OUT THERE AND GET OFF UR PC. CONFIDENCE NOT BEING CONFUSED WITH ARROGANCE IS THE SEXIST THING ON A MAN.
GO AND APPROCH WOMAN ASK THEM OUT? WHATS THE WORST THAT CAN HAPPEN. GROW SOME SELF ESSTEM OTHERWISE LIFE WILL PASS U BY AND U WILL ALWAYS REGRET NOT BEING BRAVE ENOUGH.
GOOD LUCK ONLY U CAN CHANGE BEING LONELY, BEING ON HERE COMPLAINING ABOUT IT AINT GOING TO CHANGE ANYTHING.....................................GET OUT THERE.
XXX
2006-07-18 08:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by lovelygeorgeoussexy1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think how nervous u get approaching girls then X that by 10 and that's how nervous girls are to approach guys.
girls feel rejected if they check u out andu dont come over
2006-07-18 08:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋