one person loved me 3 years back.we were very happy that time.after one year dont know no contact from him.i waited &lost interest on him &all that time my cousin consoled me & come close to me.unfortunately we both were in love. after two years that old person again came back into my life again.now what to do?i love them both.not getteing any idea to do.plz help me in this matter,i would be pleased.whom to love&marry?plz get me out of this confusion&depression.
2006-07-18 00:51:21 · 10 answers · asked by phanisree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should forget about the past and concentrate with your affair with your cousin, if you consider him an ideal guy in your life.
2006-07-18 00:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by vakayil k 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's no need 2 b depressed on this matter, if u still hv feelings 4 him-give yr EX a second chance, if not concentrate on the 1 that loves u right now.It's always difficult to ignore some1 that u once luv'd bt due 2 time & circumnstances things do change, so b strong and follow yr heart things will work just fine for u!!
2006-07-18 01:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by razino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE seek counseling with a therapist. You can get through this confusion - you might just need someone trained to talk to you about this to help you see past the fog. There are medications that can help, but you will grow past this confusion and hurt.
You don't have to know right now who to love and who to marry. Those answers will come in time. For now, just focus on being yourself.
You also need to consider that marrying a first cousin is illegal, so I don't think that is a good person to consider marriage with. Please seek counseling.
2006-07-18 00:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im trying to figure this one out you had a guy you were inlove with and you hadnt seen him in a year then you became close to your cousin and fell inlove with him is he a real cousin or what if that is the case you said you are inlove with the dude that left and a cousin i would sort my feelings out you seemed confused and give it time and it will all work out dont jump into anything yet if who ever you decide to be with they will wait if they truly love you good luck with this cc
2006-07-18 01:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by readyhead42@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're looking for a soul partner in life, he should be able to be your best friend, mentor and overall an angel in your life. He will always prioritise you above everything but giving you space necessarily.
Sometimes the answer to your doubts is, you just have to use your thoughts than lusts...
2006-07-18 00:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by June Ambi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand both of them and judge the right one match for you.
As you said U know one for 3 years & another for 2 years
You can very well judge both of them.
Judge for :-
Good heart,
Right thoughts
Education
Understandable
Down to earth and lots.
Bye
Dilip
2006-07-18 00:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Bala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a choice between a cousin and a non-relative?
Let's see, retarded children or normal children. Which shall I choose?
2006-07-18 00:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well being in love with your cousin should be out of the question so maybe u should go with the other guy
2006-07-18 01:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have that to think positive and to look for to occupy with some activity kisses leydeday2@yahoo.com.br!
2006-07-18 01:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by Menina22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
taht choice is yours oonce you made your choice there is no going back
2006-07-18 00:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by christsluv4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋