and if anyone finds out i will break their hearts. everytime i come to either of them, it doesnt come out,. what should i do before it comes out of hand? plz help me and dont say tell the truth
i tried it wont come out of my mouth. help me b4 i lose both
2006-07-18 00:45:49 · 27 answers · asked by kiss2envy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not necessary that everyone will like d truth
so no need to go for it
u can always mix-match d truth wid a hint of lie
atleast get one of the people on ur side ok
either DONT tell it to the person then everythin will go fine
listen if u wana discuss this thing privately then im here for u
u can trust me
just tell me privately wat happened
im sure v can work somethin out
contact me
il surely help u
2006-07-18 04:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know what u need to do. U don't need anyone here to tell u that. Things aren't gonna get any better until u confess and bring everything out in the open. It may be hard right now, but in the end u will be glad u were honest with everyone.
2006-07-18 07:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by onehot_mama23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not make a list of pros and cons on both , see which one out weighs the other , try to follow heart and not the brain, or you could just pull a name out of a hat if you like to gamble. Either way it goes you will have to let one down , but there are plenty of fish in the sea for them, and they will get over you. If you don't you will loose not just one but both.
2006-07-18 07:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by its_ok_im_here69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously guilt is getting the best of you!!! But, you say don't tell you to tell the truth, it won't get any better till you do!!! You will probably be found out anyway sooner or later. Sol, it depends on when you want to face up to things. Be the bigger person and do the right thing, you can do it!!!!
2006-07-18 07:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems what you are looking is for a way out. there is no way out of this one. you know what you need to do, but you havent been brave enough yet. stay away from them both for a while. gather your thoughts and come to terms that the truth will set you free. and what ever it is that you are "still" doing to break their hearts, STOP it NOW before you get snow balled and really cant get out of your situation.
2006-07-18 07:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look anyway, you are going to loose both. Anytime if one comes to know the other, he will break. So keep mum on the issue. Who ever comes to know tell him other is just a friend. Finally go with whom u like most.
2006-07-18 07:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write them letters to tell them what you want to say. It's a little bit spineless, but at least the truth will come out. You really should just suck it up and tell them to their face, but since you've ruled that out, start writing, and don't use any of the shorthand net abbreviations, it's hard to read and your meaning may get lost.
2006-07-18 07:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by sarahjane1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a confession. It is an evasion, you coward. Spit it out and get it over with and you will feel better. If you cannot say it, the write it down, but you must exorcise this thing, what ever it is.
And don't tell me "can't" you chicken. Get a grip.
2006-07-18 07:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick one and tell the truth if the words wont come out then write a letter if i was you i would tell both and take the chance of loseing both of them what your doing is wrong to both
2006-07-18 07:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by mrs_bitch 2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can write down in a letter either to yourself or the person you think you have disappointed: write what is and get it all on paper. All your thoughts and bad feelings.
Then burn the letter. This way you got it off your chest and theres no evidence.
Good luck
2006-07-18 07:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋