2006-07-17 23:41:59 · 34 answers · asked by lianne f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first thing im going to say deerie is that i notice you put he wants to 'shag' you no hint at all that reciprocate his feeling....so don't. all im trying to say is dnt giv in jus cos he wnts only do it if your ready and its reely wat you want. anyhoo if its wat you want then it wouldnt be givin in. jus go with the flow if he trys out your NOT happy with then tell him to stop if he pressures tell him to start hitchhiking dwn the road of loneliness.
2006-07-17 23:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby Doll don't do it. If you're not sure don't. You are way to young and i know you are probably sick of hearing that but doll you are. My friend when we were in 8th grade got pregnant because her man wanted to shag. she was 14 when she had her baby. It's not cool at all. You don't need to be fast. Sometimes it's hard to tell someone you love or like a lot no, but you do need to say something. Nothing ever good or fulfilling comes from sex unless you know the person and have been with them like boyfriend girlfriend. Or Husband Wife. No one can tell you what to do. You do what you think is best but we can influence your decision. Good Luck with what you decide and be safe!
2006-07-18 00:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by littlepussycat_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be carefull. it is a big thing to do. If the boy is around your age , and you really want , then do. Otherwise don't even think about it.
If you are asking this question then you are probably not sure and if you are not sure , you will definitely regret it.
I know when i was fourteen i was not ready , but i knew a few people who were , but i mean 3 or 4 out of all the people i knew.
Sex is not a bad thing , it is a good thing, and if the circumstances are right it is great fun. The problem is if the circumstances are not right ,then it is no fun at all, and can be very upsetting.
2006-07-19 07:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by ghd45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Lianne! You are still very young to be doing those kind of adult things. Besides at your age of 14, u might not even be sure if its really love or just infatuation. Just tell him ur not ready for it. Dont let him control u over this matter. Your the girl and if anything happens, its u who will get affected more. He can always run away fast from u when u get pregnant. Be smart and stand on what u think is right. Be strong too to fight the call of the flesh....
2006-07-17 23:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say No ! I dont know how old your boyfriend is, but if he is older than 18 then it is definitely immoral as well as illegal. Besides you dont wanna get pregnant at 14 and end up giving up college and career and making a life for yourself.
2006-07-17 23:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by jayfrombr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are probaly not ready for full intercourse at the moment and i didnt hear him say he wants the two of you to make love so let him know that it is not the right thing for you at the moment and that you want to take your time and experiance other pleasures first such as kissing and carressing and rubbing which can be just as good as full blown sex
2006-07-18 00:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by RJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was very naive about sex and got pregnant just b4 my 16th birthday.. i ended up having a miscarriage but please do the right thing.. if you feel ready then go and see your doctor get on the pill and then when it is safe also use a condom... too many kids think it wont happen to them like i did but it does and it destroys your life and your families if you are old enough to have sex you are old enough to di it sensibly
2006-07-18 06:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by pankypaxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can keep a boy friend in the age of 14. you can also do it, plz do it and have fun.
2006-07-17 23:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by Lucky Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are to young to think bout that sort of thing. If he does not understand then get rid of him and enjoy your young life. You do not sound happy bout doing it so don't feel like you have to cos he wants it.
2006-07-17 23:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by saucey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to f*** off. And don't be suckered in by the "if you really loved me, you would" crap that little boys will sometimes throw at you to guilt trip you into bed. If HE really loved YOU, he would be more than happy to wait until you are ready for it.
2006-07-17 23:47:28 · answer #10 · answered by Disgruntled Biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 you are too young. Tell him to wait until you are ready. If he wont, then dump him!
2006-07-17 23:44:02 · answer #11 · answered by OriginalBubble 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋