in my personal experience its left me broke ,messed up and much
worse off than i was before the relationship ...seriously why bother?
2006-07-17 22:31:07 · 6 answers · asked by will t 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how you feel. Sometimes I think it's not worth the trouble trying to be in a relationship. Hurt and pain are no fun to go through when the relationship doesn't work out. But just maybe one day the right one will come along. That's what everyone tells me and I'm really thinking it's not going to happen. So that's why I don't bother with one.
2006-07-18 10:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by rockerbabe65 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Perhaps it has something to do with from an early age we are conditioned to believe through fairy-tales/stories that the pairing of people and a happy ever after is what we strive for. I agree, unless you are fortunate enough to meet a like minded soul and you are in a relationship where you share common ground and beliefs, the negative will eventually out way the positive.
2006-07-17 22:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by mizzsquitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because relationships can bring you the most amazing times of your life. for me personally it's worth the risk because i could never go through life without sharing it with someone i love and that loves me just as much.
2006-07-17 23:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because humans are social creatures who need affection and attention. we need to feel special, wanted. however the relationship works out, that feeling is worth the damage. we crave it, we need it for our self-respect just as we need air to sustain our bodies. so when the wounds heal, we crave it again....
2006-07-17 22:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by gwenwifar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"why bother?"
Because "Rosy Palmer" gets old after a while. But there is always porn on the net right?
2006-07-17 22:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by a1quick57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine has left me broken, messed up too.. but not really worse.. relationships are good venues to grow..
2006-07-17 22:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋