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I like this girl and i want to ask her out except thats not how things are done in my group of friends we all hang out and then go to like clubs or house parties and that kind of things not serious dating!!!
she was with a guy i think he is ugly but that cud be me being jealous anyway he dumped her (fool!) and she is kind of lovin beong single!!
i DONT know her type but i dont think im it since most of the guys i have seen her wit are nothing like me!!!
she is short petite blonde and sassy i guess i bad girl and im 6ft and a heavy build i am stocky i guess!! would it be weird to try to tell her i like her as more than a mate and how would i do it?

2006-07-17 22:24:24 · 9 answers · asked by BLUECALMAN 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

It's difficult in what you would say but if you like this girl then go for it. The worst she can say is I don't want to. Just take her to one side as friends and just tell her how you feel. She is your mate so she isn't going to say something nasty. You two actually sound made for each other, you'd be her body guard, lol!

Yeah, give it a go. Maybe tell her over the internet to save your cheeks from going red when you say it?

2006-07-17 22:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by susanradford18 4 · 1 0

Be open and honest with her, we girls like that better than beating around the bush!! However if you are friends be-careful because if things don't work out how you want them too, would it jeopardise your friendship individually or in the social group? I am sure if you follow your heart you will know which direction to take next. Good luck!

2006-07-17 22:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i think you should try and spend more time with her within your group of friends. talk to her and find out what she likes and what makes her tick, build up a really close relationship with her and maybe try and hint that you like her. if she doesn't get the hint, just be confident and ask if she fancies doing something just the two of you. you've got nothing to loose but everything to gain! good luck!

2006-07-17 22:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yep...step up to the plate (with confidence) and ask her out. Just a one on one date with her ---- no "pack" of friends. Go to a movie and have pizza. Good luck.

I once stood in line for over 20 minutes to buy a pack of gum just to ask this girl out. Guess what? I married her. See, ya never know until you ask.

2006-07-17 22:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by a1quick57 3 · 0 0

she has been in a relationship and now single ..she wont want to be tied down with anyone for a while ...best thing to do is ask her to come out as a friend just ring her up and say your bored and wondered if she was doing anything ,,make it casual and keep it like that for a while untill she gets to know you....

2006-07-17 22:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by kathy_madwoman_bates 4 · 0 0

look the best type of man isnt about his looks its about his personality and the best way is to be her friend because all the men she goes with and falls out with you,ll always be there for her she will realise in the end but if not friendship lasts longer then sex.

2006-07-17 22:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by bigboobs1@btinternet.com 2 · 0 0

No just go for it you never know, just say you find her very attractive then see what she says, if she gets funny about say you were only joking, if she was loving it take her out for a meal or something.

2006-07-17 22:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

go up to hear and tell her straight off, it will be a surprise but girls usually know anyway, she will respect you for it also confidence is also a big turn on for a girl, but not arrogance.

2006-07-17 22:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by jame_football 5 · 0 0

I'm sorry, I got bored reading this so I stopped, can anyone give me the gist?

2006-07-17 22:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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