Please answer me before 14 August 2006
2006-07-17 22:09:54 · 21 answers · asked by Enmpml 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you want a man like that, it isn't impossible. You need to find a man who loves you not for your sex life but for your looks and personality. A soul mate. When you find this man, then he will understand and be happy in what you believe in. NEVER EVER have sex with someone just to make them happy, because that is the wrong person! I highly respect you for what you're doing and don't be put off by guys who just want you for sex, there are some guys out there that have morals and beliefs and know how to treat women.
2006-07-17 22:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by susanradford18 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is down to finding a man who truely loves you.
however alot comes down to what you consider sex, i.e. what you will do before the wedding night and what you wont.
if sex for you is everything but a kiss or kiss on the cheek, then just remember that sex does not have to be between two.
if he loves you enough, then he would keep self-satisfied (i.e. masterbation) until your wedding night.
this does not mean doing with others, merely stopping his 'full' sensation when necessary.
my husband does this at certain times of the month when i have serious period pains. He does not resent me for not wanting sex at these times as he loves me, and understands.
hopefully you may experience the same love and understanding.
2006-07-18 04:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by love HB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a problem with western socities where social values
and religion have died.
I am a muslim and belong to a muslim country. For us not having
sex before marriage is a usual thing and u don't have to set such
a criteria for marriage. We treat having sex before marriage a sin.
And most of the people are vergin at the time of marriage.
We rather look other things in our life partner like understanding,nature, behaviour and other things necessary to pass life.
2006-07-17 22:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by laurence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its tough, society really pushed the sex topic. Its in our faces everyday. Just be open with him, tell him up front. Dont scare him off by laying it out bluntly. But say something like " I want to have sex, but I want to wait until marriage. But that doesnt rule out kissing ;) wink wink ". See a man equates sex with love, but if you make him feel sexy and tell him you cant wait to give it to him after you are married and reassure him, everything will be fine. BUT first find a good guy you want to marry.
2006-07-17 22:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if you ask him on the 13th August then you have a chance!
Otherwise tell him you have trush or something so you can't do it. t he says he'll use a condom then say the scratching hurts, and then you will miraculously recover on your wedding day!
Just a question though, why would you want to wait?
2006-07-17 22:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by Lilac Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple - I don't think. Explain your feeling to the person you start seeing - if they accept you views/opinions then see where the relationship goes. If not - ditch 'em. If you are already in a relationship then they guy should accept you for what you are and your views are a part of you.
Always remember - it's your body and your choice.
2006-07-21 04:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by geegee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, respect his decision!? You should be honoured that he wants to wait to do the right thing - is he a Christian? I am too but made the mistake of being quite promiscuious when I was younger and found it the hardest thing to tell my future husband.
2006-07-18 04:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by Bridezilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. If he won't listen then he's not the man for you anyway. If he does understand but has a very high sex drive well then maybe you could keep him satisfied others ways, y'know, your hand, oral, etc
2006-07-17 22:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what exactly you want. It is all up to you, actually. Remember, don't open your legs until the big day arrives. No man can do sex without your consent unless he is a rapist. Good luck.
2006-07-17 22:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by byakga 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're wedding day is coming he should wait, just tell him to wait, if he really loves you, his heart will make him wait, his heart should be stronger than sex drive.
2006-07-17 22:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋