We have been together for 1 year and two months. He have cheated on me. And when we broke up he had sex with another girl. We have had some hard times but somes good ones too. But he asks so childish. He's always with his friends and all that. And its like some days i just want to say screw him and on others i just want to hold him and i say i love you. Im scared that im only with him because i do not want to be alone or something. But i feel i love him to much to let him go. Now im about to go off to college. So its about to be a long distance relationship and i do not want to waste my time!
2006-07-17 20:51:19 · 10 answers · asked by smiles18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you just don't want to be alone. Starting over is very, very hard. You enjoy his company. If he's cheated on you, you need to leave. If you're so conflicted with your feelings for him, it's obvious you're not sure of them at all. Don't waste your time, he'll just cheat on you again, & staying with someone because you're afraid is never a good reason. Been there, done that...
Move on & enjoy your college life. you're bound to find someone who you honestly love & won't want to leave them because you love them.
2006-07-17 21:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to stop the porn and masturbation dependancy, get right into a remedy software and then, he has to come back to words with his schizoid personality. there is little probability of fulfillment in the different case. besides the actuality that if he changed into inspired to 'get genuine' I doubt he'd be courting textile for no less than 5 years. there is no treatment for schizoid personality affliction yet remedy can help him advance his high quality of existence. A courting may only be plausible at a (emotional) distance and at his age, it is fantastically unlikely that any lady ought to tolerate 'no sex' or no genuine intimacy for that lengthy.
2016-10-14 22:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by charis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate very well. My advice would be to break with him, but stay friends. Life has many paths, pick one and sort your life out. who knows, mybe theres a possibility that you'll meet him somewhere down the road, but with you going to college, stress will not help. If you don't stay friends, it was never meant to be. if you do, more power to you. the only thing I would warn about is be careful with your feelings. don't be in a relationship just for the sake of it. Step back and sort everything out before you jump into anything. trust me, it'll help.
2006-07-17 21:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by kiatzu_shutendo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the long distance isn't going to make the relationship better, that's for sure. the cheating behaviour should be hard to put up with. to me it shows a lack of respect for yourself. i would question your esteem and just how strong it is. so to answer your question, yah i think you are probably afraid to leave him and become alone, and then lonely.
2006-07-17 21:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you'd be wasting you time gf. Make a fresh start and leave his sorry a$$ behind.
2006-07-17 20:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the cheater.
2006-07-17 20:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by replyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his ***!!! long distant will only work if you guys have a strong relationship, right now it doesn't seem like it!!
2006-07-17 21:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by littlebombers11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hesitate. Just go & tell him your feelings. He will certainally realise his mistake .
2006-07-17 20:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, there will be plenty more boys to meet when you start college, not so dumb either, trust me you will not regret it
2006-07-17 20:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by seu_seh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dump him and carry on with your life
2006-07-17 21:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by Stephen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋