what should i do know,i lost every thing....... i dont know what to do.. please show some way to come out from this
2006-07-17 20:50:27 · 13 answers · asked by Heartnet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know it sucks but you have to fiorget the *****.....she cheated on you...would you want to be with someone who did that to you again???
2006-07-17 20:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by gallow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through that, it's horrible. It's very hard to get over. But..you have too. Look, she cheated on you & got engaged to the dude (I'm assuming?) either way, she doesn't deserve you. It wasn't ment to be. You have gained alot more than you think. you've gained more knowledge & another hard life lesson under your belt. You can only bring yourself out of this. You will find someone else, you will be happy again. life is what you make it. go out there & do something that makes you happy. Cry, scream, do whatever you need to do to let everything out. It's a good start..but the rest is only up to you.
But I know it'll be okay for you.
2006-07-17 21:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all i know how you feel,i had the samething happen to me the only difference was,he got married.And instead of him telling me i had to hear about it from my sister,so,you can imagine how i felt.It felt as though someone had taken my heart and stomped all over it,but,i got over it,so will you.It's gonna take a while,and it's not an easy process,but take my word for it you'll be okey.I know that three years is a long time to be dating,and it's not too easy to let go like that,because,you both have put a lot of years into this relationship,but,it seems you were more serious than she was.Ask youself a question was she really meant for you?Because,if she cheated on you,then she got engaged to someone else she wasn't too serious about you and her relationship because if you've dated one person for a length of time,it's not that easy to move on,take it from me, i know.Things may seem a little rough right now,but you'll survive.I believe,everything happens for a reason,you know God see's things that we don't,and he does everything for a purpose,maybe this is his way of telling you,hey,you can do better.There's someone out there for you,just take your time and look for her,she may not show up today,tomorrow,next week, or even next year,but she's coming.Just be patient,take some time out for you right now.Focus on something that you want to do for you,you'll get through this rough time you're having right now.And for your ex-girlfriend,you give her this message for me.What goes around comes around,what you put out there,that's what you'll get back.You reap what you sow.So,you take care,remember,you'll be okey,just pray and look to God for all of your strength.I'm praying for you.
2006-07-17 21:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am So Sorry For i Hear That But You Must Search About Your Girl Who Is Love You . You Will Soon
2006-07-17 20:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by Night WoLf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, just take some time to think over your whole relationship. If she cheats on you, she's not worth your time and your love for her. You can grieve bout it for maybe 1 or 2 wks but after that , its time to wake up !!!! I believe that there is always someone one on this planet who is your other half, its just that you have not found her. I would say u are lucky that she cheats you before marriage not after. Take care, dun think too much:)
2006-07-17 20:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by barbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can feel for ya man but relize this there was life before her and there will be life after,she probaly left you because you have this bitchy whiney attitude man up and show her your a man live your life, if you really love her find happines in the fact that she found happieness even though its not with you.
2006-07-17 20:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sas-n-Frass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget her. and think that it was ur illusion or think that you loved her in ur dreams.
You know you see dreams but many time they wont get true then doesnt mean we are sad for it. so you can think that you loved her in dreams then you can come out from this.
2006-07-17 20:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for another friend-only friends will help u thru this kinds madness...
then meet someone new,when u get over the sadness.dont try to get into a relationship wen ur depressed...
2006-07-17 20:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by El-rene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear that....try not to stay alone...be with friends n family........may b she is not the one for u...
when u hav lost something....that's mean something better is coming to u......on the way..
2006-07-17 21:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the exact same thing just happened to me , he chaeted as well and it hurts alot we were together three years too , dude im just hanging in there and keepin hope alive , good luck, iwish you the best
2006-07-17 22:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by anissia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋