2006-07-17 20:28:47 · 29 answers · asked by gymfreak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, sometimes it happens. That doesn't make someone a tramp. Don't expect for it to go much farther though. I mean it might but most likely it won't.
2006-07-17 20:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by lor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
~~depends on if you enjoy the idea of being the new aids poster child or not~ some will tell you just use a condom, but let me caution you, that even the condom companies don't refer to it as safe sex... only safer sex, because they have a failure rate and are not 100% effective. they can break, leak, fall off, and they all have microscopic holes in them that are larger than the HPV and HIV virus' which means that the virus' can pass through the condom. sex was meant for two committed people in love, you can't possibly know that you are in love with your date after 1 date, and you can't possibly be ready for a commitment or to raise a family with your date after 1 date. having sex that soon you are only in lust... and that is wrong. that is using your date for your pleasure, not making love to please your mate... sex and love are not the same thing. respect yourself and your date and wait!~
2006-07-17 20:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex right before the first date is much better.
2006-07-17 20:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had sex with a girl after knowing her for 9 hrs (she was in my college orientation group and hooked up the first night of oreientation). Some times, if the attraction is there and the mood is right, you just can't resist the temptation. Wait... reword. I wouldn't call it temptation, it's an urge, a need, and it's natural. Life is short, live it up.
2006-07-17 20:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by NF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the first date.. yes.. On the first date? No. If you really like someone, you can hold out a bit can't you? But if you're so horny you can't take it, then do it. But just to warn you, you might feel differently about eachother and things will be awkward while you're trying to get to know eachother after you've made whoopie.
2006-07-17 20:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ,depends on both of you ,but for me not ok. i can have sex only for the person who i feel right and that takes time to know and learn about each other. if men want to do that with me at the first date .i feel he just wants only sex.
2006-07-17 20:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by vimsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a successful life, I'd say the sooner you drop that habit, the better off you'll be. Focus on long-term success in relationships and everything else. Far more fulfilling and enjoyable.
You'll understand it better once you experience the fact that women can use you, too, without regard for your feelings. Not fun.
2006-07-17 21:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the attraction and the same feelings, if u think it's ok then go ahead but also be aware that sometimes they can take those as one night stands or they might think differently of u, it's all up to u and how u feel about it with the person ur gonna choose to do it with
2006-07-17 20:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by breni03_bsb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i prefer having sex before, during and after the 1st date
2006-07-17 20:36:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm yeah, but just remember once you have sex now she'll be an X-girlfriend and possibly a psycho stalker.
2006-07-17 20:32:08 · answer #10 · answered by ginohb2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋