I'm scared can you help?

Question

Ok this is the deal i'm going to a different school this year and everybody in this neighborhood hate's me cuz of my mom and my dad and they remember me from when i was a little girl and plus the guy i like goes to that school and every time i like a guy i stare, stumble or do something embarresing but seriously i have talked this over with my mom but she thinks i'll be ok but i don't i seriously don't want to go to this school oh yea and people get beaten up there i bet by the end of the school year i'm gonna have a black eye but i'm really sweet and shy sometime's but you know what this is going to be the worse school year ever can you please help me here!!!!!!

Answer 1

If you are harmed in any way, just call the police. I always hated bullies.

Answer 2

-think of it this way you're so lucky cause now you get a second chance at being the new girl at school (and the new girl is always the one the guys go after, since I got moved around alot did high school at three schools I got to be the new girl severla times!)

It's always different when you've been gone a while and come back, they see you differently because you've grown up! You just might get the guy you use to have a crush on (just practice eye meet than LOOK AWAY) let him come to you. You'll be OK.

If you're after they'll push you around take some self defense classes or if you want to get real serious take karate or some other discipline it'll give you confidence, and you'll look and FEEL better. If you want to do something at home try TAE BO on DVD you'll feel like kicking butt in no time. But I'm sure you wont have to.

Answer 3

Social problems are a big part of getting along in school and in the world in general. I don't know why you belive people hate you because of your parents, that's a little odd. However, if I were you, I'd adopt a more positive attitude and let people decide about me based on my merit and not my parents. If you want to make friends, show yourself to be friendly. Dont' try to buy friendship, but seek out people who share common interests with you. Participate in supervised activities and keep busy with academics rather than just hanging out around the school after or before classes. This is usually how trouble starts. Don't gossip! Listen more than you talk. As for the boy, try talking to him instead of staring! That can be seen as weird or rude. Everybody stumbles or has embarassing things happen. Just laugh it off and keep going!
If you take my advice and arrive at school on time and go to class, stay away from the nasty people and participate in structured activities supervised by teachers for extracurricular fun you will meet some nice people and avoid fights.
As for the black eye you just know you are going to get, remember they have to bring some to get some! Don't be afraid to defend yourself. Adopt a "don't start nothing, there won't be nothing" attitute and back it up if you have to because kids tend to have pecking orders and if you let yourself be placed on the bottom as an easy target they won't relent.
Be nice. Nice people attract other nice people. Begin to believe you will have a good year, focus on your academics and enjoy school. Believe me these are the last relatively carefree years you'll get in life.

Answer 4

Go check it out. It might not be so bad. Your making it really bad in your mind by stressing over it. Just relax. You'll be scared and nervous the first day but it will get better. If someone hassles you bad and you feel like you just can't deal with it, talk to the counselor and see what can be done to switch classes or whatever. I doubt you can switch schools if your parents can't afford private school But if they can afford it, then maybe talk to them about that. Anyways, I hope you make out ok. I bet you will.

Answer 5

First, you need to change your outlook on this change. Whatever you think will happen, likely will because you, yourself, are attracting it. Be positive, think positive, smile, be happy. Know that nothing will happen because you have made that decision. It's a little difficult for you to understand at this time because of your age, but ask God for His wisdom in this, and in what I am saying. If someone tries to take you down, know that they are powerless in doing so unless you give them the power. If you do give them the power, dust yourself off and move forward with confidence and strength knowing that you will not give them the power again. Do not be afraid. Be confident and know that God is always with you wherever you go. Always be positive in knowing He is by your side, ready to do what you ask. So, also, be careful of what you ask. That is why you must also ask for His wisdom so that you may know what you need to ask.

Be happy and live life in abundance.

Answer 6

first why would people hate you because of your mom and dad? Also if you don't know how to defend your self don't be afraid of a little asswhooping, you'll get back up the next day and you will learn from your mistakes... what are you really afraid of?

Answer 7

Hmmm, a point of view I can relate to..but I'm a guy. Ok, here's what I do, first of all..pretend you don't know **** about what happened. Whatever it is they hate you for...you said it was when you were younger? Your position is you don't wtf their talking about. Your cOO wit it, anyone says anything to the contrary you either make like A.) You don't know nor do you care, you could give a ****. Or B.) Go .. "Huh? what, what about my mom..or dad...So...who gives a ****, I don't really pay attention to what my parents do."

I don't know what it is exactly* your mom or dad did, but if its only moderately bad you can get away with the above mentioned.

Now if it is really bad and your taking **** for it, when push comes to shove you can do again two things... A.) pretend your having a hard time...a real hard time at home...even say you hate your parents to, really sell it. This is non confrontational way. I have what you may call the gift of gab. I really make people believe anything I say. Now if there is no way out..and your have to fight then you have little choice. If its a set up fight...and there's just one person, you should be ok..I mean you wont go home with broken bones at least. Maybe....I'm speaking from a guys point of view.

If you get stuck..and you have to fight...this is very important please try and remember this. You want to make the first move. Do not wait till she engages you then she will set the pace for the fight. Your target, the tip of her jaw. THE VERY TIP. If your trapped and you have to fight circle around to her calmly shell prolly be talking **** or might make a move to push you. You swing a hay maker with all your power at the side tip of her jaw. You do it right shell be out like a light. If you miss your just gonna have to scrap it out. Trust me, I'm a exercise buff, I've taken over 15 years of kempo, and I learned the most about real fighting from my 2 years of boxing. You wanna set the pace of the fight, that means you engage her, I don't mean rush in like a mad women though. You want a precise hit, you wanna take her out as fast as possible. And if you do what I said it will work. You may even amaze you self.

I'm not gonna lie to you, you may panic from your first adrenaline dump. If its your first fight. Panic paralyzes, just know your not gonna die, besides...chics rarely have enough physical strength to cause severe injury. Just depends on your weight vs. whoever it is. Unless she's some Amazon.

If you find your self in a two on one scenario just run, your not trained to handle anything like that, that's called being served. That's not a fight so much as it is a hunt.

I hope though, it doesn't come to that. If your non-confrontational, as most girls do tend to be, just try and speak your way though it as I mentioned above.

Again I don't know how severe whatever, you say they know you for is. You'll have to use your best judgment on that.

Remember...if you get in a fight....you goal is knock her *** out...you hit her...you hear me..dont let her hurt you, no has that right. You aim for that jaw line and hit hard, to kill. Hit her like you wanna her dead. Trust me..unless your bodybuilding chic you wont kill her, but I don't want you going away from this knowing just a slap will do it, you gotta cause countercoup. ( you can look that up on your own lol)

Hope everything goes ok...just stick to your guns. Oh yes and as for that guy...Iiii really don't know how to get a guy...or not act weird around them....hmm Lol just don't fall ON him.

Well at least till he knows you :P

Answer 8

Dont worry sweety try to make friends and avoid bad people

Answer 9

You have to be strong. Hold your head up and do not worry about what people may say about you.


Good luck!

Answer 10

carry a big stick with you the first day fix you right up