2006-07-17 19:09:06 · 15 answers · asked by James E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you shouldnt 2 wrongs dont make a right
2006-07-17 19:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by douglas g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it'll mess you up...spiritually, physically, emotionally...
I'm sorry that you were cheated on. I know it's tough to learn about and get through (I really do). You feel like something sharp just pierced you in the heart, and won't come out...and like you're being ripped apart from inside, and all you feel is pain. But by cheating on them, you're not getting back at them, you're just messing yourself up more. Sex was created and meant to be shared by a couple who are bound together for life, b/c during it, your sharing your full being...in other words, it's not just a physical thing, but also a spiritual thing (the 2 become 1). If you cheat w/ somebody else, then you're actually merging your body and spirit with that person, too. Trust me on this...all it does is widen the void and makes it harder to fill.
Walk away from it, get away from the cheater, and take time to mourn the relationship. And for now, I'll pray for you.
2006-07-18 02:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by Turmoyl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just plan wrong. Regardless of a particular reason, those who cheat do not really care about their patner to an extent to keep the committment. Usually, it would not hurt them if you cheated on them in revenge. What does it accomplish? Nothing really. They really don't mind. It mike make you feel worse by going against someone else. What if the person you cheated with was with someone else or really wants to be used like that. You are just hurting more people by doing so in some way.
2006-07-18 02:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because two wrongs dont make a right. In life things come back twice as hard. Dont lower yourself to the person's level who cheated on you.
2006-07-18 02:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your reasons for cheating will not be the same as their reasons for cheating because you are cheating because they cheated.
Do you like that person because of cheating? So then do you expect to like yourself because of cheating?
Are you dumping them because of cheating? Then you are not together and so you are not cheating. Are you staying together? Then you are in a viscious cycle of cheating and mistrust, if that is what you want to keep perpetuating.
2006-07-18 02:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by ridethestar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Boy!! I was cheated on for awhile I wanted to go out and have sex with another guy so bad, to get even. But, when I sat down and really thought about it.why should I hurt myself like that he's not worth it. What he did to me well come back, what goes around comes around believe me. Don't do it it's not worth it!
2006-07-18 21:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by SpecialLdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been cheated on, you know the pain and misery that it causes. Would you really want to do that to somebody you care about. If you want to be with somebody else, that's OK. Just let go of the one that you have, be the bigger person.
2006-07-18 02:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by eeyoreshunni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because if u do cheat ur only lowering urself to the same level as the person who cheated on u
2006-07-18 02:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by chaikid88@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because if you feel that way then you should just leave the girl alone. you cheating isn't going to change the fact that she cheated on you and it's not going to make things easier. you still aren't going to be able to trust her. just stop being stupid and leave the girl alone.
2006-07-18 02:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because wat goes around comes around. And because you know how painful it is and u obviously dont want 2 b a bastard and make some1 suffer!! Unless ur cheating on the person dat cheated on u, then thats just payback!
2006-07-18 02:15:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋