can my bf really love me if hes outright told me that he thinks i am not pretty 2 him?
2006-07-17 19:06:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes not at all lowering my self esteem, i find myself 2 look fine 2 my biggest judge, myself.
2006-07-17 19:10:22 · update #1
we have been 2gether 4 the past 2 years and hes just told me this recently
2006-07-17 19:15:12 · update #2
dang how rude of him, but if he didnt like u, he wouldnt be going out with you, but if he keeps being rude like that, well u know the rest
2006-07-17 19:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by sesso*E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just say that because physically you may not be "his type" however he may love the person you are. And that doesn't mean you're not pretty, he may even think you are, he is just not the typical "look" that he would normally go out with. I felt that way about my husband at first, but then I got to know him and I love the person that he is, and now I think he is very physically good looking. Still, I would never tell him that and that was kind of mean.
2006-07-17 19:12:57 · answer #2 · answered by smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks aren't everything, but that was a very insensitive thing to say. The fact that he's with you must mean that he does love you, but make sure he knows that saying that kind of thing won't get you guys anywhere. Tell him how you feel about him criticising your appearance in such a way.
And yeah, I do agree with a lot of the other people here - dump him if he's so shallow.
Everyone's pretty on the inside. :)
2006-07-17 19:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by Me. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That aint even cool if he's putting you down like that!! Even though he's your boyfriend that's very mean to say despite whether he loves you for your personality!! How did you feel about it?? Because no boyfriend I ever had called me unpretty! Girl you don't need that If it hurts you!!
2006-07-17 19:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Ash D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if he thinks your not pretty well you should dump him cuz a real b/f should think your pretty 24/7 and if he can't see that well he's blind and plus that doesn't come first personality additude and that kind of stuff come's first not how pretty you are i hope this advice helped!!!:)
2006-07-17 19:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by cutiepie4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your bf is telling you that you are not pretty then he does not sound like your bf. He can love you but can you love him he thinks your not pretty and he told you that to your face?
2006-07-17 19:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by dancingpanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who would say that is too immature to even know what love is. If he really loved you he wouldn't THINK of saying that. That's not love!!
2006-07-17 19:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt love you. Somebody who loves you wont think that you are not pretty. He would think the world of you no matter what.
2006-07-17 19:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not pretty top him?!!!!! how does he know it?what he is a super model? when someone loves someone then he or she find him or her the most beautiful person.people in love don't pay attention (too much) in the appearance but in character
2006-07-17 19:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he's looking for a way out,so do your self a favor and kick his *** to the curb now,before he does end up hurting you!!good luck!
2006-07-17 19:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by hshellraiser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋