I have been going out with this guy for a year and half. We lived together during the school year and now we are doing the long distance relationship thing for the summer (only 3 months). I do love and trust him but its becoming hard. We live three hours apart right now. He went to this party and took a picture with this girl that i found on his friends website. He said he didnt remember taking the picture or when they took it. I know i shouldnt over react but i HATE this girl. She is always hitting on my boyfriend. I dont know if i should just let this go and believe him and move on. I know its only a stupid picture right? But i just dont know what to do? What would you do?
2006-07-17 18:48:21 · 8 answers · asked by jenks1545 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't make this a big issue. This relationship is only a long distance one for 3 months. You're lucky, most people have that for about 1-2 years or forever. One of the characteristics that most couples lack when doing the long distance thing is trust and honesty. Without those two things, it will never work!
As for his excuse of that picture-it is lame and i suggest you get a better one from him!! If he cant remember taking that picture then what else cant he remember??? You have the right to over react with this picture situation and i don't blame you! I would do exactly the same!
What i would do is get the truth out of him about this photo and if there is anything else. If you are 100% sure that he is being honest and it is nothing bad then keep him and trust him but if it is bad or he is lying and you know he is then break it off.
Good luck!
2006-07-17 18:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a couple of key points concerning this matter. Lived together is past tense. It indicates no longer living together. Then there is long distance relationship. When the cats away the mice will play. A man does not take a picture with a beautiful woman and not remember it. You can be assured that if he says he doesn't remember the photo he's lying! If he's lying about that then he's covering up the real reason he's in the photo with the other woman. If you live three hours apart it's just too convenient for him to see other women. If you want a life with him then you need to be in the same place as him, if not then you need to lose him. From experience if a woman puts it in a mans face I don't care how strong or trust worthy he says he is, he will take it because it's in his face.
2006-07-17 18:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kewl__Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just a picture. Why do you hate the girl so much. The problem is, if he doesn't remember taking the picture, then they could have kissed and stuff and he might not have remembered that, or at least he is going to say he doesn't remember. The truth is, you don't have enough evidence to break up with him right now. Are you really going to break up with him because he took a picture with a girl you didn't like? No, you are not. So just sit back and watch and calm down for awhile.
If you should break up with him, something will come out later.
2006-07-17 18:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? Maybe you should have fun and not be worried about a long term serious relationship. Maybe it is making him feel trapped. Either way, sometimes you need distance, I mean distance from even being in the realtionship, to see how great the other person is. If your boyfriend is interested in another woman, maybe he needs to see what it would feel like if he didnt have you around. And maybe you need to know how life is without him around. It feels like women should trust their gut instinct. Either way, at some point you both gotta start trusting each other, regardless of distance.
2006-07-17 18:56:12 · answer #4 · answered by honiebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time apart do your thing and let him do his. If you get back together than there are no hard feelings about what you did while you were apart.
2006-07-17 18:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it on the friends website? Ask the friend what he would do.
2006-07-17 18:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him very much then just trust him one time
2006-07-17 18:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by sumiyuki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask he's friends if he did any thing at that party
2006-07-17 18:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by cab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋