i am seeing a very lovely ans sexy lady but she has no trust in me....how do i show her that i truly love and care for her
2006-07-17 18:34:57 · 19 answers · asked by mikey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm dealing with this myself right now. It's not easy to battle the ghosts of one's past, and it's nearly impossible to battle those of someone else's. What I feel is best for she and I right now is to build our friendship, friendship builds trust and will show that you're in it for more than a fling. This is what all people but particularly women fear the most I feel. No one wants to be used. Give it the proper amount of time and fall into place these things will.
2006-07-17 18:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by Deleted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS be honest with her.
Do not make her feel bad about how she feels.
She probably has a good reason and it isn't just you she doesn't trust.
Someone hurt her badly and trust does have to be earned.
Please be patient and she will come around.It has taken me 8 1/2 years to trust my man but that is because he thought if he constsntly made me jealous I would snap out of it and feel silly.
Instead it taught him how selfish,stupid,and wrong he was and how much he was hurting me.I have very good reasons not to trust men and he almost destroyed us.
BE PATIENT AND SHOW HER YOUR LOVE.
2006-07-17 18:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by cmeand3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've done something to break the trust, then you've screwed up and need to let her go. If you haven't and she continues to mistrust you, she may be damaged. A lot of people have been hurt or just have a cynnical nature and won't open themselves to trust others so they can't get hurt. If it hasn't been that long, keep trying, but recognize that you can't MAKE her trust you if she's not capable of it.
2006-07-17 18:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by Danyel W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. Then, years from now, move across the street from her, and spend your evenings throwing elaborate parties while you stand inside staring at her porch light. Oh yeah, don't forget to call everyone "old sport".
2006-07-17 18:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by mrcone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things to help her develop trust and it will come over time.
2006-07-17 18:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mark W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U CAn never force a person to do anything.........all u need to do is to just be yourself ...........if she's yours , she's yours...don hv to do anything xtra.....even a smile will do if u both were meant for each other. But if u are desparate to know, be daring and ask her out.
2006-07-17 18:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesnt trust you how can there be a relationship. there should be trust from the start. you cant make a person trust you.
2006-07-17 18:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by yumm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself the whole way through, and u should start trusting her too
2006-07-17 18:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by sesso*E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and she will lear to trust and love you.
2006-07-17 18:36:41 · answer #9 · answered by Cristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she was hurt in a past relationship, just give it time since there's no 1 thing you can do or say to convince her, just your overall daily actions
2006-07-17 18:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by JOHN R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋