My boyfriend really loves me, but sadly, he told his parents he wants to be with me the rest of his life, and they don't approve because of religion. It feels like it could take forever to get their acceptance, and to top it off, they don't speak English and live 18 hrs away in another country. We broke it off because it would not be fair to me to have to wait for him, and for them to MAYBE change their mind. He said, if I don't meet anyone else, and he will still talk to his parents about his feelings for me, that one day, he can promise to be with me forever. I don't want to wait for him, but I don't want it to be over with either. We love each other dearly, and we have to end it because he wants to make his mom and dad happy, even if he is not happy. I am very sad. I don't know what to do. I am depressed, not motivated, I love him more than any man, I don't know what to do.
2006-07-17 18:34:20 · 8 answers · asked by Tracy L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, how old are you guys??? If your old enough to make your own decisions, then make them!!!! His parents dont even live in this country so who cares what they want. I mean your boyfreind wants to make his parents happy then fine but how is he ever gona move on with his life by waiting for the right person for them to come around. Does that really make any sense??? Sounds like a bunch of crap if you ask me. And chances that his parents dont speak any english which also means they probably want him to meet someone from the same nationality. If you guys reallly love each other then why would you let this ruin your relationship?? And if its that easy to let go over something like this then your relationship wasnt too serious to begin with. Tell him one last time how you feel about the situation. And if the first words out of his mouth are " but my parents" then leave his dumb *** and find someone who is willing to show you off to his whole family bcuz he loves you for what you are. And it shouldnt matter what anyone else thinks about your relationship. Its sooo obvious that your boyfriend lives in his moms womb. The right question to ask would be "Does your boyfriend wipe his own *** or does his mom still do it for him"??? Good luck with this one!!!!
2006-07-17 19:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by Janelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 years and no dedication. Does that say that he can get what he needs and doubtless stray as you observed evidence displaying this and he can do despite because of the fact there is no criminal binding of a marriage. Or, has the dating burned out before and it now has only became glaring? 15 years is an prolonged time or perhaps although various human beings think of its ultimate to do, if marriage isn't what you want, its only paper. in case you 2 somewhat love eachother and are making plans to stay the the remainder of your lives jointly married or no longer, you 2 could desire to stay on the comparable internet site to maintain a dating going. i could only ask him why he's been finding or inquiring on the positioning approximately human beings and function an prolonged communicate.communicate and are available to a freelance. If that doesnt artwork and you think of he's straying, possibly its ultimate to discover actual love and get married sooner or later.
2016-11-02 06:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing your heart need is a greater love, but dont look for it, it will find you, the pain you'll feel is normal it is the reality in every relationship once you invest your heart there are 2 things that can happen, you'll be extremely happy or the exact opposite. but the pain is temporary don't forget that.
2006-07-17 18:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by fenrir_131 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't break up with him! No matter how hard it is.. keep his love in your heart, hold it in your hands and never let go.. don't let it be the biggest regret of your life..
2006-07-17 18:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by Raven Hood® 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seeems once again religion tears things apart. get a hobby and don't jump into dating others right away. if he chooses to listen to his parents then he deserves to lose you. true love knows no bounds!
2006-07-17 18:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by SHE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing you tell your bf that this is your life not his parents and they need to deal with it.
2006-07-17 18:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take all the time you need to get over this. dont let anyone rush you along telling you otherwise.
2006-07-17 18:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by yumm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter where helives or wat hes parents say!!! is all on u guys!!! love is a strong bond!!! if u guys think u guys will make it no matter wat happens rhen be together
2006-07-17 18:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by TraVieZa_420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋