How come men are so perverted and have no self control?

Question

Ive had my boobs squeezed, my butt grabbed ,lewd comments thrown at me, and I'm sure alot of other girls have too. Why do men think this is ok, and how come you never see chicks doing this stuff dont men have self control,also you never see women going around molesting little kids, whats wrong with men?

Answer 1

a mans penis has no conscience

Answer 2

Because, regardless of how often people get all big-eyed and say men shouldn't do those things, men are often encouraged to do it: by their friends, uncles, brother, fathers, the media, and sometimes by women. It's still wrong, and good guys don't do it. Men who respect women, men who respect themselves, men who are capable of a mature relationship with a woman don't act like that.

And although this behavior is FAR more common in men, we can't say women don't do it too. How many women have been arrested for having sex with their teenage students? The sad part is, when girls are molested, they are victims, even when the 'victim' is a teenager who initiated inappropriate involvement with a man (who should have known better). However, when the victim is a BOY, molested by a WOMAN, suddenly it's no longer a crime, it's HIGH FIVE TIME! "Way to go, boy! Five years old and laid already! What a stud!" Or when the boy is a victim of another boy or a man, or the victim of a violent sexual molestation by a woman, it's hushed up. Boys don't tell because it's more than just the humiliation of rape and loss of control ... it's a violation of their entire masculine identity.

And when a man is sexually harrassed, he's not supposed to complain. Idiot Males say "What are you complaining for? Who cares if she's ugly? Get you some of that! What's wrong with you? Are you gay? Are you dead? She's begging for it!" So men either (a) go for it, or (b) simply keep quiet, because a man's not supposed to complain about sexual attention because obviously ALL MEN WANT IT ALL THE TIME and A REAL MAN DOESN'T CARE WHERE IT COMES FROM OR WHERE IT'S BEEN AS LONG AS HE GETS SOME. So sexual harrassment goes unreported too.

I'm shocked speechless by the growing epidemic of violence against women and the general lack of respect women get in this world. But you know, it's no picnic being a guy, either.

Answer 3

I'm a woman and sometimes I think i have no self control. When im at a club and wasted I grab guys butts and crotchs.

But I think women are socially more inclined to have more self-control than men, where it is more accepted.

Answer 4

As a man I've seen women do all the things you mentioned except the kid thing and most guys find that the sickest of all things. Remember Pamela Smart the school teacher and what she did . Had an affair with a young boy and ruined her family and husband. Both sexes can become out of control when they wish tool

Answer 5

At the same time women have problems with gossiping, excessive shopping, vanity, obsession about looks and social status. Men and women each have their own vices, or tendencies towards them. We each have our own challenges to overcome, and we all must develop self control. I would suggest that men have as much self control with sex as women do with the aforementioned "female" vices.

Answer 6

I don't know what their problem is. I have the same problem with my guy. I have asked him and all he says is that I love you so much and I have to touch you. I tell him there is a lot more to me than my boobs and butt. If you find the answer, please let me know!

Answer 7

please don't generalize about molestation, it all happens in all directions. Men saty what is on their mind, some women view that as lack of self control. I think that is just being brutally honest

Answer 8

Could you be hangin out around the wrong kind of men in the wrong kinds of places. Don't allow it.

Answer 9

im not i have self control

Answer 10

women are no saints either lady so i wouldn't judge if i were u