i dont consider mayself beautiful or sexy but i have relations always wanting to take me to bed pls telll me is it something i do
do u think i give the green light if so tell me how
2006-07-17 18:22:59 · 8 answers · asked by irezoid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Relations taking you to bed? Stop right now and get help - this is incest....
2006-07-17 18:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lupee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably an open and honest person, friendly, outgoing and such. This is often mistaken for a willingness to take things further. You usaed the word "relations". if this is relatives, take the advice that you were given by someone else, get help, there's a problem there, but if you meant others that you have other relationships with, hey, it's up to you.
2006-07-17 18:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by mxzptlk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you shouldn't take them back to your place, and strip naked... ;)
But seriously, do you not want the sex right away??? Then if it is offered or hinted at, turn it down...
Nothing wrong with denying them the pleasure to find out if the relationship is based purely on sex... Get them to go a few dates with only a kiss... Then when you feel they are enjoying the real you and the physical you, then sleep with them...
Don't beat yourself up, a healthy sex life is a great thing to have, and you shouldn't be ashamed... Or guilty...
2006-07-17 21:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they don't like you well enough to hang out with you, then they're not worth going to bed with.
They're just using you for one thing. You need to find someone who likes you for you.
As far as giving the green light, I have no idea. I'd have to know you better to see what kind of signals you give off.
2006-07-17 18:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by asterisk_dot_asterisk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all: What do you mean about relations??? If you mean family/relatives then STOP! Don't let them because that is sick and mentally troubled!! It is wrong!!! If you mean just plain guys or friends then it is up to you if you want to have sex with them. If you don't, then do not have sex. There is nothing that you do to make them want it, its not your fault.
2006-07-17 19:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have in the past word will get around and they may think you are an easy option boys are more interested in sex than a relationship
2006-07-17 18:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by Sam's 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not exactly, men are just like that. i have had the same problem for years now. either you get used to it or you break I've now accomplished both, but whatever you do don't give in unless it feels right to you.
2006-07-17 18:28:23 · answer #7 · answered by marykycjane27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only do it if you really want to have sex with them. Don't do it if you really don't have the urge.
2006-07-17 18:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by Mark W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋