i go out w a great guy.. bt hes a very jealous person... im not used 2 dat plus i havent been serious w/ any1 for about 2 years... n i have ALOT of friend n tlk 2 them all da time!!! n he gets mad n one time he even deleted sum of my #s from my fone!!! wat do i do?
2006-07-17 18:12:44 · 16 answers · asked by TraVieZa_420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him how you feel, and tell him that he needs to try and make an effort to change his jealousy. jealousy is bread from insecurity, so perhaps you too should help him build up his own self esteem
2006-07-17 18:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
The only thing you can do is tell him how you feel if you havent done so already. And if this is his reaction to this then you need to leave him. Believe me relationships dont last when both or even just one person in the relationship is always jealous. I went though the same situation with my ex. We dated for 5 yrs! And if we were together and jealousy broke a 5yr realtionship then it can break anyone elses. I never expected it to get out of hand and it did. Just put a stop to it a.s.a.p!!! Good luck.
2006-07-18 01:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by Janelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a low self esteem that's the reason why he's so possessive. My ex bf was possessive too, and it really sucks! He feels that he has no security towards my love to him, and he easily got mad although the truth is im NOT entertaining other guys. Well, i suggests you to talk to your bf regarding how you feel abt the relationship and have a compromise. Goodluck!
2006-07-18 01:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by HisAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk. Do it now before things get serious. Some guys who are very jealous end up as abusers.
2006-07-18 01:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by donise225 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and reasure that everything will be fine...he probably just does not want to lose you. my b/f is also very jealous too he does not even like for me to talk to a guy even if he knows them and they are his best friend. i remember when we first started going out he was so jealous because this guy always sat by me during breaks or lunch time. he used to ask me," are you trying to drive me crazy." i used to wonder why he got so mad, but that is how guys are they get so protective over a girl and it only gets worse when they get older and have daughters.
2006-07-18 01:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by Kelsey G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he is very controlling--trying to alienate you from your friends is the first sign. Get rid of him before he starts physically abusing you. He will. He has a controlling personality & that is the type of personality disorder that all physical abusers have. I was physically abused for 13 years, I KNOW! Talk to your girlfriends--tell them the truth and get their input & LISTEN to them. I wish you good luck-you will need it.
2006-07-18 01:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you are in a committed relationship, you need to respect your man.
The reason he is jealous, is because you are talking to a lot of guy "friends" right??
Well, let me fill you in on something, guys don't just want to be your friend; unless they are gay.
So, if you love your man, drop the other dudes on the side.
If he is out of control jealous, than drop him.
But, have some respect for your man, please!
2006-07-18 01:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by val schmal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he's taking the relationship more serious than you are, so let him know how you feel. If you want to take things more slower or whatever the case may be, you need to let him know before it gets more out of control.
2006-07-18 01:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by Sha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disassociate yourself from him, and possibly even change your cell and home number, he's insecure with himself! there is nothing wrong with you having a social life, I'm the more outspoken one in my relationship and my bf just sits there and is mainly content listening. Get away sweetie, very far away from him- be careful, have some friends around for backup if he goes nuts.
2006-07-18 01:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by kmrelo04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the foundation of a good relationship.
You are likely very young – sorry but it will not likely last anyways.
2006-07-18 01:18:42 · answer #10 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I deal with this everytime i have a "man". I have tried talking to them and telling them they need to trust me but it never works. (That could be because I dont agree with them having female friends. I know...double standard, but men cant help but think with their penis.) So I end up breaking up with them.
2006-07-18 01:21:48 · answer #11 · answered by UlickNme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋