it all started in oct of this year, one of my friends started dating my ex, when to tell u the truth i wasn't done with him yet. after they started dating she tried to make my life a living hell, which on the most part she did. she is still causing problems even though i've tried to end the whole thing. he is my bestfriend and she won't even let us see each other, we have to sneak around to talk. i say the only way she gets to me is because i love her, she'll be family forever, but just because i love her does not mean i have to like her does it? i really hate her and want to destroy her life the way she has mine is it wrong?
2006-07-17 18:02:47 · 19 answers · asked by marykycjane27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no it's not wrong, im dooing the same thing now, only my ex, is with my brother, ya ya trust me she makes my life hell to, and we have kids. i f..k..g,hate them both. remember though it takes a bigger man to forgive and forget. ya i no im not ready to do that eather, not till i make life hard for them lol. good luck
2006-07-17 18:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by TO FAST TO FURIOUS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll be honest. I didn't read the details who you hate or why. I will say this, though: No, it's not wrong to truly hate someone. Hate is a part of human nature, just like love, and without hate, there could be no love. Of course, you have to have a balance between the two, or neither will end up being worth much. So hate away, but don't stop loving, either.
2006-07-17 18:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by salihe66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is the most negative of emotions and energies. I don't even like to use the word. Feeling that way may cause you emotional as well as physical harm. Life has a way of balancing things out. "what goes around comes around" let nature take its course and she'll get hers. trust me.
2006-07-17 18:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by Duckjuice3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard not to hate but hate destroys the hater also. You have been wronged but 10 years from now you wont even think about it.
2006-07-17 18:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt say that its wrong but its a waste of your time and energy. if you dont like her then act as if she doesnt exist.and she was never really your friend to begin with because a true friend wouldnt date your ex if she knew you still had feelings for him.. dont be petty like her and try to make her life a living hell cause you have more important things to do. just ignore her and her childish games and keep it movin like a real woman
2006-07-17 18:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by Qu'ee Roxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not family and you need some allies to let everyone know that anything she says bad about you is not true and do live like it isn't or they will think otherwise. if people do bad things to you don't let them get away with it legally or someone might blame you for it
2006-07-17 18:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont destroy her life. its wrong and its also wrong to say u hate some1 . u know that there is a thin line btw love and hate. you only dislike someone not hate. just leave her to God
2006-07-17 18:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by TO BE CONTINUED.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hating someone only makes YOU a bitter person , you can love someone but you don't have to like them... but hating does damage to YOU .. and why would you wanna be like her and wreck her life?? Why would you wanna be like the person YOU hate so much? LOL think about it !!
2006-07-17 18:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I say go for it. Ignore her completely and see if you can get him back just for the hell of it. Then when you do, dump him. Show them both what yer made of.
2006-07-17 18:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is just like love, it's a needed emotion. Don't be a doormat smack the **** and make her pay
2006-07-17 18:04:55 · answer #10 · answered by Erik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋