Is virginity on a girl that important?

Question

Why is a woman worth measure by her virginity. However we cannot say the same thing about guys. I beleive sex should be share with someone you like, but virginity is not the only thing I have to offer. What do you think? This thery still hapeens or times have change? And, for you guys would you consider having a serious relationship with someone who is not virgin?

Answer 1

Waiting to have sex for the first time is good because it allows a person to develop a positive feeling of self worth. This applies to both women as well as men. Having respect for yourself is probably the best thing anybody who is young could have. As soon as an individual begins to just "give themselves away" to just about anybody, then it's obvious that that person doesn't respect themselves. Sex, as you say, should be something that is intimate, but it isn't the only thing in a relationship that should be intimate.

Now when it comes to virginity, there is couple things that I have learned. The first being that not one of my female friends have ever said that their first time was stellar by any means. That's understandable considering the pain, emotions, and akwardness of the moment. The second being that sex everytime after your first time will be get better and better because you have had the chance to practice. So with that said, I would DEFINITELY have a serious relationship with someone who is not a virgin. To be honest I haven't had a relationship where a woman was a virgin nor have I ever been with a virgin.

When the time is right for you and your significant other is up to you solely. Don't do it because you're pressured, do it because YOU want to. Use protection, and don't worry if it sucks the first time. You're not a failure. Just make sure that you love yourself first. If that's not the case, don't expect the other person to. You have a lot to offer someone other than your body. Be proud of that!

Answer 2

Since there is no indication of your age here, my answer has more than one dimension. I firmly believe that girls should wait to have sex until they are mature enough to handle the psychological implications of it. There is more involved in sex that lust, especially for girls. Guys don't seem to have the psychological attachment to sex that girls do. They can get aroused by the leg of a table. The female tends to equate sex with love. You will never git over the first person with whom you have sex, so it would be someone important and someone you are in love with who is also in love with you. O don't believe that young teens are mature enough to make such a decision and should not be having sex.

If you are an adult then you must weigh these same consequences and decide if losing your virginity is worth continuing a relationship but be sure that it is not an attempt to keep someone who may not love you in return.

Being a virgin on your wedding night or at least waiting until you have found the person you intend to marry should be important to you. You will be glad you did for the rest of your life. It shouldn't matter whether some guy thinks it is important.

Answer 3

Personally, I don't care about being a virgin as important, and i don't really understand whats the big deal. i even heard that guys like to go after virgins. But some religions say that virginity is important. I read off a newspaper article that girls in poor countries...their worth is measured if they are a virgin or not, so some people get their hymen fixed.

Answer 4

Time have change

Virginity is a topic in which eveybody have their own opinion...
The mayority of boys won't care if a girl is virgin or not, but will probably apreciate her more and take her more seriously is she is virgin...

I think that u should do what u feel is right... If u have that really special one that u truely love and u want to give him ur virginity, It'll be worth it, 'cause u'll remember it as the night u two became one... and u'll probably feel right because u know that what u did was because u love him

But, be wise, some ages are just not right to be sexually active... Wait for the right momment and let ur heart guide u

Answer 5

Yes, it's VERY important... here's why:
Sex is a special bonding in design for married people. Chastity is defined as abstinence from sex before marriage and complete fidelity thereafter.
There are a lot of confusing things today and all sorts of "conventional" wisdoms, and consequently all sorts of confused people; however, one sure foundation of truth that if you adhere to will protect you from confusion, broken-heartedness, unhappiness, low self-esteem, lack of confidence, failure, and literally EVERYTHING that has to do with human suffering. That one foundation is non other than, that's right, the Law of Chastity.
Of course, there are guys who would consider having a relationship with a woman who is not a virgin. They will most likely say that they are serious; most likely, however, these guys are shallow, will not respect you, they are what "torn up" women call names such as "jerks" or whatever. (Unfortunately for those woman, they get caught up in that finger-pointing and then never recognize the opportunity to change themselves, thereby changing the course of their own lives.)
Anyway, if you are a virgin, I commend you and you will discover that that attribute will pay "LARGE dividends" to you over-and-over again.
Remember, a guy will NEVER marry you just so he can get laid; but if you haven't given "it" up and he wants to marry you, then chances are that he respects and loves you. Your virginity will be the greatest gift that you can give him then. Don't give it up outside of marriage... you WILL, I repeat, WILL regret that later.
I hope this has been helpful in answering your question.
If you follow this counsel, then one day you will remember this with much gratitude!!!
good-luck

Answer 6

I don't think that a girl being a virgin is a big issue for guys anymore, I think most people are aware that we live in a society where people have sex and we have come to realize that marrying a virgin isn't what it's cracked up to be.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Virginity is not the key to a relationship and men do not decide if they will date you based on your virginity.However,your virginity is YOURS!I think that it is a huge thing and you should be proud to be a virgin and should stay that way until your married.Men ,not ALL,just some...chase after virgins,as if they were prizes.So,be careful and enjoy your virginity,be proud,and stay safe!!

Answer 9

Hi,

Im 36 and still a virgin......do you think I would settle for just anyone or sleep with just anyone and give up my being pure? No Way! Sex is way more than doing it with someone you just like......Its a big decision and not to be taken lightly.

I think that sex should be with that person you end up spending your life with not boyfriend after boyfriend so you can end feeling used and thrown away before you even meet that one you will spend the rset of your life with. Sex is an emotional thing whether you know it or not.......it can tear you apart inside and leave you broken and feeling used and thrown away.......this happens after you give yourself and then are dumped or the guy finds another girlfriend.....does anyone stop to think of that....nooooooooo all they think about is that " sex is fun, sex is good as long as you have safe sex"

What exactly is safe sex? I have no clue cause let me tell you ,nothing is 100 percent effective .....the only thing that is effective is abstaining and waiting. Do you realize how many social diseases there are or that you could contract aids and die from it .....or doesnt that matter either as long as you have a good time and it feels good?

Then there is the issue of pregnancy.......how many babies do we have having babies in this country today.....wayyyyy to many. How many abortions do we have because teens are having sex and getting pregnant and arent ready to raise the baby they created.......way way way toooo many. It all can be stopped by simply abstaining and saving yourself.

its not about labeling anyone its about having morals and about using common sense......God tells us in the bible that we are to flee from sexual sin and that includes premarital sex......He intended it for the marriage bed and to be with the one you take as your husband and will be with for life.

Me, im proud to be labeled a virgin ........to me it shows I have self respect, integrity and morals. I will stick to my guns and abstain till the night of my honeymoon and im with the man God intended me to be with for the rest of my life.

Answer 10

Well considering how few virgins there are out there....I would guess that having a relationship with a non-virgin is better then no relationship at all.