well.. i'm kinda new to the whole idea of real, life penises. i'm 15.. and like.. whenever my boyfriend whips it out i avert my eyes.. cuz it kinda scares me.. it's just creepy. i can't look at it and touch it at the same time. and i can't give him oral cuz that would require being wayyyy too close and i'd def have to look at it then.. maybe i'll get over it.. but still.. is this normal?
2006-07-17 17:58:52 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it is normal for some people. Some women are never comfortable with them. Others get over it. Some think they are fun from the very beginning.
Turns out, not all men like to get oral or have it touched. Some are too sensitive or don't like the idea of someone else having too much control over them. Rare - granted - but they do exist.
Peace!
2006-07-17 18:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
YES BECAUSE IM 29 AND THEY STILL SCARE ME.
NOT ONLY BECAUSE THE SIZE OR THAT I'LL THINK THEY'LL HURT BUT ALSO BECAUSE OF THE DISEASES OUT THERE.
ITS NOT A GAME NOWADAYS.
AIDS
STD
I LOOK AT ALL PENISES AS A DISEASE STICK.
I THINK EVERYONE SHOULD LOOK AT EVERYONES PRIVATE PARTS THAT WAY.
BEST WAY TO KEEP YOURSELF SAFE.
THINK ABOUT IT,BY NOT HAVING SEX YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT UNWANTED PREGNANCIES,AN STD OR WORSE,AIDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FOR ME PERSONALLY BY NOT HAVING SEX MY MIND IS WORRY FREE.
AND ALSO YOU DON'T KNOW IF YOUR BF IS 100% HONEST WITH YOU.
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MANY PEOPLE SLEEP AROUND THESE DAYS.
IT'S DISGUSTING.
AND WHEN THEY(OTHER PEOPLE) FIND OUT THAT YOU DON'T SLEEP AROUND THEN THEY CALL YOU THE WEIRDO.
HA!
ID RATHER BE A WEIRDO THEN DYING IN A HOSPITAL WITH AIDS OR PREGANANT(AT 15) WITH NO JOB OR MONEY TO TAKE CARE OF MY BABY.
JUST DON'T HAVE SEX NOW.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT YOUR VIEWS ABOUT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS BUT JUST WAIT.
IT WILL BE PLEASURABLE TO BE WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE AND ARE FULLY!!!! COMMITED TO.
PREFABALY YOUR HUSBAND.
BUT RIGHT NOW,YOU ARE SO NOT READY.
DON'T STRESS YOURSELF ABOUT IT,JUST DONT DO IT.
IF YOUR BF GETS MAD OR LEAVES YOU,TO HELL WITH HIM.
HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU ANYWAYS.
IF HE DOESN'T REALIZE HOW PRECIOUS YOU ARE AND YOUR VIRGINITY IS(WHICH BY THE WAY IF YOU GIVE IT UP YOU CAN NEVER GET IT BACK)THEN HE DOESN'T REALLY CARE ABOUT YOU OR YOUR FEELINGS.
2006-07-17 18:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by PG 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not normal. It is not normal to have an irrational fear of anything. It is a phobia, it will cause you problems later in your life, and will cost you relationships, you should get help before your an old woman living with 38 cats because you can't keep a man.
2006-07-17 18:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats a large style of rigidity off my area, we've were given something in elementary, now i'm able to commence sticking ladies with self belief, no somewhat if all and distinctive is preserving its avg then were both positive. you need to experience reliefed and commence doing stuff which includes your female friend
2016-12-10 11:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not normal it should come natural. I can see if it was a stranger but your boyfriend C'mom that is ridicules. You shouldn't be looking at penises at your age anyway!
2006-07-17 18:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, most young women are not delighted with the penis when they first see it. It's not a pretty thing, but you will eventually learn to appreciate it because you will get a lot of pleasure from it. It also depends on how aroused you are by your partner.
2006-07-17 18:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready for sex yet.It's not a bad thing .Also if this guy just whips it out maybe you should consider just kicking him in the nutz and walking away.Too much too soon .
2006-07-17 18:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 19 and a virgin and I'm kind of peniphobic too, probably just because I have never seen one. I have a basic idea of what they look like but have never seen the "real McCum"
2006-07-17 18:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by This is my nickname :-D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Penis's never did look any good, they never will. lol..
Yes it is normal to think like that when you are so young. As you mature and get older this will change.
Without trying to sound to old here, but aren't you to young to be having sex in the first place????
2006-07-17 18:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be worrying about it! you are 15, wait for the right moment...and I think any girl would be a little taken back if her boyfriend just whipped it out as if it were no big deal.
2006-07-17 18:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋