Well okay i like this girl and i just told her that i liked her about a week ago and she says that she likes me too.. but the thing is that she has a boyfriend. She says she likes me too but she also wants to be with him. Is that possible.. ughh i dont get that. Also she talks to other guys that like her as well and like occasionaly. So am i just one of those guys that likes her yet she only wants to talk to me for the fun of it. I feel like crap.. what should i do? i think i should move on but i still have feelings for her. its so gay gay GAY!! i hate her and like her at the same time.
2006-07-17 17:53:55 · 19 answers · asked by bucctommy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her if she really truly likes you. if she doesn't, move on. if she does, then ask her why she has a boyfriend
2006-07-17 17:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by Drew P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! relax! it's not gay!
It seems like she is a little b****
Just analize it: She has a boyfriend, she talks to u and tells u that she like u... and I won't be surprise if she says the same to the other guys that like her
But hey! let's not think bad about her, maybe she is REALLY confused
Maybe she feels something similar for both of u (her boyfriend and u)
Try to find out which of these two cases is she
is she playing with eveybody's feelings?
or is she just confused?
Talk to her, look straight into her eyes and try to see if she is telling u the truth... If she is confused, do everything u can to win her heart... If she is just playing with everybody, move on, she is not worth it
2006-07-18 01:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by sweet-girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop dude. What you're doing obviously isn't working so stop doing it. It sounds like you're being a wussy man. And by wussy man Im talking like sucking up the girl, buy her affection/buying your way to her heart, treating her like a perfect angel all the time, being predictable, not being decisive ("I donno, where do you want to go/want to do?"). This is typical wussy man/nice guy behavior and it is NOT attractive at all to a girl. It's all about attraction. Showing her the opposite of wussy man behavior like being interesting, cocky & funny, challenging, a good communicator, being assertive (knowing what you want but also taking other peoples ideas into consideration), and not being needy. Treat her like your bratty younger sister. Email me if you need more help. Good luck man.
2006-07-18 00:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jon J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from a girl's perspective, you need to move on because she's confused about what she wants. She'll talk to you when she's made her decision, but for the mean time, lay off because she's being a little pimpette.
2006-07-18 00:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by someone in the world 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she has a boyfriend and likes other guys shes just bieng a tease . ask her if she likes you as a friend , boyfriend , or watever else. youll probably get the answer you want or one you dont like. if she doesnt have the feelings you have for her then just try to get over her.
2006-07-18 00:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by tina2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on at least for now. If she really likes you too she'll realize it and come to you. At this point there really is much more you can do(without looking desperate)
2006-07-18 00:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats ssoooo sad but it really seems like she messes w/ a lot of other guys heads and you just might be one of them trust me i know how it feels and its not a great feeling but seriously you should find someone that likes you bak and that isn't gunna mess w/ ur head...u know...if you want to talk just e-mail me floydygirl@yahoo.com
2006-07-18 00:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by floydygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just move on. Obviously she can't decide who she likes or what she wants to do.
2006-07-18 00:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. She is just having fun.
2006-07-18 00:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as selfish as it sounds... if its going to hurt u more in the long run then think of u and u only... she sounds as if she does this to alot of people, and ima sure that u could find someone better who will treat u well...
Lotsa Luck...
2006-07-18 00:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by jamilaclairadams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww that suks dude, move on, find a nicer girl this one sound like she likes to play games
2006-07-18 00:57:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋