im 15 years old and i live with my dad who is a single parent because my mom left me 10 years ago. my dad is a deputy sheriff and when i am in school i am constantly worried about him am i just paranoid or should i talk 2 him about this
2006-07-17 17:52:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Of course talk to him he probably is aware of your fear about him which is reasonable but you have to understand that we all are in danger that something will happen to us anytime apart from his job he might live to be 100 it's not related to somebody's career but when your time comes you have to go i have 2 friends who lost their father this year and both have a sister and brother younger then yourself and both of them died a natural death and didn't' have dangerous or stressful jobs so don't' get yourself all workout for no reason
2006-07-17 18:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by Dark Crystel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey, dude. hell be ok. wen i grow up i just decided i want to be a fbi agent wen i grow up. b/c ppl dont die that much. they only show that on tv b/c hoo wood watch a show on a normal life, u no? and if he ever by any chance does get hurt, doctors shood b able 2 fix him. if that doesnt help, then wen ur at skool, and you worry, breathe slowly and think about aumthing relaxing. u can also go to thererapy. its not only 4 crazy ppl. they can find out how 2 help u 4r stop worrying so much.
2006-07-18 01:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by kandie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is perfectly normal to worry about your loved ones when they are away, especially when they have a dangerous job, such as your father. Just chill out, dude. I'm sure your dad knows how to handle himself when situations get sticky.
Talk to him about your fear of his job. He'll understand.
2006-07-18 00:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by Stryker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk to him about this. I can understand why you worry about it, but you can't let it control your life. Just know that the other people your father works with are also watching out for him.
2006-07-18 00:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course talk to him. Make sure you leave time for him, time to do some father-son stuff (fishing, football, whatever guys do). I worry about my parents too because my closet friend just lost her father. It's jsut a part of life.
2006-07-18 00:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and he'll understand because he's constantly worried about you. It's not paranoid it's called love.
2006-07-18 00:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 him
2006-07-18 01:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by boingboingontour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it, your fear is quite common among spouses and children of police officers. There are support groups to talk to.
2006-07-18 00:55:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont trip just tell him what u feel.the benefit of the doubt is that he will understand good luck
2006-07-18 00:56:28 · answer #9 · answered by Wmd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
def. talk to him about him!!
2006-07-18 00:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋