ok i was chatting with this guy who is 16 and im 13 and he asked if i had a webcam i said yes and he asked if i'd turn it on i was breaking any rules so i did. he wanted 2 know my weight and height so i answered them. but then had a bad feeling about him wanting to know personal things about. next thing i know he wants 2 see my breasts. i said no way so he tried to play with me saying i was sexy blah blah blah. so i said piss* off and exited out. is it wrong that i said know i kinda got scared?
2006-07-17 17:51:50 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were definitely right in doing what you did! After all...it IS the Internet and he could have been some sicko, perverted 50 year old who wanted to see a child nude. It may be a good idea to just get rid of the web cam...you never know who you may be talking to and that person could quite easily say the "right things" to you to get you to do what he wants. If you ever watch the news, I'm sure you've seen the reports of teen girls who chat with these men online and they talk them into traveling to meet them! It's just not a good thing to talk to strangers on the Internet...like your parents probably said when you were young...don't talk to strangers. :) Just be your own voice and never let anybody tell you it's 'ok' to do something you feel in your heart is wrong...you'll know the difference. ;) Good luck and stay outta trouble! lol
2006-07-17 18:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Kendra Leigh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right on girl, tell those people to piss off and ignore them, they are a waste of skin and need to get a life. You did the right thing, when something doesn't feel right, there's a reason and go with your feelings, they won't betray you, even if you don't know why you feel funny.
In fact, if you get the chance, report him to some authority or to the people who host the chat room (like yahoo), so they can block more attempts that he makes, and he will try again...
2006-07-17 17:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by greenguy415 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little sister, you need to understand that even though there are other kids online like yourself....There are also sick psychos online trying to catch a glimps of a 13yr olds body. It's discusting and it's gross and it's just plain wrong. If someone is asking you to display your body over a web cam that should let you know that the person you're chatting with could very well be a derranged loonatic.
PLEASE BE CAREFUL WHO YOU TALK TO LOVE! These creeepy guys are usually men old enough to be your father. They want to do bad things to you and I don't want that happening to you.
Leave the web cam for friends you know in person. When you talk to someone you've never met, the risk of being targeted increases. They could be using those images to do some pretty sick stuff and I know you don't want that.
Be careful from now on who you talk to little one please.
2006-07-17 18:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by ilah23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Off coarse that not wrong! GOOD ON YOU! i am a guy, and let me tell you one very important thing. when i guy wants to see you on a webcam , its only ever for one reason, sex, breasts, sex and other body parts. Juststay safe and don't expose yourself like that. keep away. its dangerouse for your privacy also. Girl, there are a lot of sikos out there that will try andtrack you down after they have chatted to you and see you on a webcam (especially).
Keep out of that whole area. Quit while your ahead.
Once again, taht was by no means wrong. that was the right thing to do.
2006-07-17 17:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by rocker86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it wasnt wrong of you to tell this guy no.........its your body and you have a right to say no to anything you dont feel comfortable doing. He sounds to me like an internet stalker and you could of gotten hurt very badly had you done what he asked.
Way to go on sticking up for yourself and telling that jerk no! Dont let anyone pressure you into doing something you dont want to do. You were very sensible and wise to say NO and exit out.
I think you should tell your parents just incase this guy might try anything atleast they will know and be able to help you. Im proud of you for saying no I wanted you to know that.
2006-07-17 18:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant heer you now, im listening to the haleluia chores right now. cuz i finaly found some one who can turn down a bad guy and good sex. that was just what you were suposed to do. anything else would have made you just like him. but because you did that, it proves and signifies that you are the smartes girl on the face of existance. to you i tip my hat. and more. (if there is) virginity isnt to be touched until after marrage. not b4. keep doing that and happyness wil be knawing your ankle so hard it will hurt. and youll love it more than any superficial ting any one has to offer.
2006-07-17 17:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's NEVER wrong for you to say "no" to things that you are uncomfortable with or make you feel uncomfortable! It's perfectly fine. If you're not alright with doing that kind of stuff (which is a good thing) then don't do it even if he gets mad and even though he tells you how great you look, etc. If he gets angry, he doesn't respect you and doesn't want anything more than to lust over you.
2006-07-17 17:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you did was exactly the right thing to do. im proud of you that you didn't give up to what he wants from you. i can tell that you're a smart girl. anyway, dont be scared about that because he doesnt know you and i doubt that he will track you down. and besides, he's probably been done that many times already by other girls that he tried to fool like that. you were very brave by doing that and im proud to know that there are still girls just like you.
2006-07-17 18:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. U R just a baby u shouldn't be doing that stuff online anyway. I'm glad u got scared and hope u before u decide 2 do it again think about it. I'm not trying 2 be funny
2006-07-17 17:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by shortyb5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it wasn't wrong of you to tell him to get lost !!!! You are only 13 years old and you DO NOT need to be showing guys anything!!!!!! Because unless you know them by name you could be talking to a 56 year old guy and saying he is 16 ...So you have to be very careful
2006-07-17 17:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋