Playmate vs Soul mate?

Question

In our quest for happiness we must be sure that we don't settle for a Playmate when God has a Soul mate waiting for us. Sometimes this is a
hard distinction to make. Playmates are tricky. They are so much fun to be with that even the smartest of us will be fooled into thinking this has to be our Soul mate. Worse yet too many of us attempt to make a Soul mate out of a Playmate.
The danger of this is that later, after years of playing we will meet our Soul mate, but it may be too late then. We may have already made a
Life mate of our Playmate and created life-long bonds (emotional, children, etc.) Or we may have been hurt from playing so hard that we are in no shape ourselves to be anyone's anything. How can we distinguish between the One, and
just another one?

First, we must be open with ourselves about who we really are and
what our soul yearns for. Only you and God know what is truly in your heart
and mind. Only you know what will make you truly happy and whole.
In order to find your Soul mate you have to know you, first. You must be willing to listen to that inner voice. And is that voice telling you that the nerdy person you enjoy talking and sharing your thoughts with, could be he? What about that friend who is always willing to go the extra mile for you when no one else will. Oh no! He's too short or too tall, balding or too hairy, and on and
on? Just too ordinary looking for me! Then there's that girl who makes you
feel so special when you 're around her, but she doesn't match that ideal you
have conjured in your head. She's too tall, not slender enough, not light
or dark enough, not shapely enough, not attractive enough, and on and on. She
just couldn't be for me! So what if he or she doesn't look like Brad Pitt or

Angelina Jolie! He or she is going to treat you like the jewel that
you are. Not only that, his or her soul and yours will commune in ways you
never imagined possible! In order to heed that voice, we have to put on the
back burner our own superficial thinking. Could it be that your inner desire is
for a truly genuine person with a good heart? If you enjoy playing, stay on
the playground. There are plenty of Playmates out there to occupy
your time. But don't spend too much time playing or you may play your life away. Eventually the playing loses it appeal and your soul begins to crave
a deeper, more meaningful connection. Your soul begins to crave your
Soul mate.

Answer 1

Dude, you are the BOMB! Well, the 'One' is the right One - relationship with our Creator thru Christ Jesus. I can only guess you may have been 'there', in the playmate/soulmate thing, like me. You can distinguish one from the other, if you stay alert and don't get involved in the sex stuff. That will change your brain in a heartbeat! Ya think? If this is a real-life situation for you, you are co-dependent (don't ya hate that ?).So call me, and i will help you, cuz i am here for every body - forget MY needs!! Sowy.

Answer 2

thats a excelent question but i tihnk you can figure that one out... judging by your quesiton description, youre a smart dude... if you could so easily destinguish the facts like that, im sure you can work some magic, figure something out

Answer 3

I'm a true believer in the fact that you will know when you have met the "one".

Answer 4

this is just 2 hard...come on soul

Answer 5

Soul mate, no question about it.

Answer 6

soul

Answer 7

there is no way of telling. if you keep searching for your soulmate, you will waste your life.

Answer 8

=)






What you said is so True.






*gives you a hug*