me and my bf of almost 2 years just broke up. i believe there's a possibility of us getting back together....

Question

and his birthday is coming up. do i send him a present or do i not do anything? his last birthday we were broken up and i didn't do anything and never lived it down. but i feel like if i do send a present i'll look pathetic. what should i do?

ps: this is the second time we've broken up in the past month. probably the 7th or 8th time during the past 2 years.

Answer 1

Obviously, if you are broken up there is a reason for it. While there is that chance that you could possibly get back together, you probably won't. But, if you want to show him that you still care, get him a present. Don't go all out, just make it something that he'll appreciate and will make him think of you fondly.

Answer 2

if u r more than a little sure then send him a card and tell him u just wanted him 2 know u remember but b prepared 2 do soemthing with him if u do get back 2gether. but if u really r worried about looing pathetic then maybe buy the card and gift but dont give him unless u get back with him. if u think u may not get back with him then just leave it alone and move on. good luck with what u decide. hope it all works out.

Answer 3

Go with your heart. Guys are so unpredictable at a younger age. I know plenty of people who dated in H.S and broke up 20 times and are married and happy now. Just do not let him take advantage of your feelings. Good luck!!!

Answer 4

You're right, if you send a present he is going to think that you are just trying to get him back. Just leave it alone.

Answer 5

I WOULD JUST SEND A CARD, NOT A PRESENT, AND SEE
HOW IT GOES FROM THERE. THAT COULD OPEN UP THE
COMMUNICATION TO MAYBE GET BACK TOGETHER.

Answer 6

Well I would find someone else, seems that you break up an awful lot. There's always a reason for it. I say no.

Answer 7

send a card

Answer 8

I think you should say screw him and become a lesbo. You can come see me. haha