ive been seeing this guy, right. and everytime i have sex i make sure he uses a condom, but this time we didnt. does it have something to do with his feelings for me? or am i just plain blind???
2006-07-17 17:31:05 · 10 answers · asked by aliaz_13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just plain blind!! he wants to feel it with no condom!! no guy really want to use a condom! we like it RAW!! have him to continue to use it, protect yourself, he took off the condom with you so he has removed it with others too!..pregnancy, diseases, AIDS cover it back up!
it has nothing to do with FEELINGS!
2006-07-17 17:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by heresthedeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's a heat of the moment situation. You said that you make sure he uses a condom, but then you said we didn't use one. There is a he and a we. The later seems to be a better reasoning. You were both a little reckless. That is my opinion. Is there any other form of birth contol being used? (Pulling out not being a form)
2006-07-17 17:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Bickels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy, if he trusts you in a way then he feels okay not to use the condom, plus doing it raw is a better feeling for the guy and for the girl too. Or if he is desperate and he does not want to let go of you., then he is trying to get you pregnant.
2006-07-17 17:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by remi V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little sister, it's important for you to know what you could possibly be getting yourself into.
First of all having unprotected sex can lead to all kinds of crap I know you don't want.
You could catch an STD from this boy. Remember all it takes is one time to catch something and he may have something and not even know it. HPV, 9 out of 10 times does'nt have any symtoms and it's proven to cause cervical cancer. ( cervical cancer can cause you not to be able to have children and can kill you if it goes on unchecked for too long ). Oh yeah, theres no cure for herpes either.
You could get pregnant little sister. Is this really the kind of guy you want to father your children? How do you know he won't do like so many other dudes do and blow you off when you tell him?
Little sister i'm not trying to scare you but I don't want down play the situation either.
Little sister I beg of you. Please don't have unprotected sex. I don't want to hear that you've become yet another statistic. I know you're probably thinking that "Oh it was just the one time or he doesn't have anything because he told me"...
Little sister the only way you'd know if he didn't have anything is if you saw the results of his blood test that he took last week. And all it takes is one time to get pregnant or catch some god awful diesase.
If you feel like you have to have sex, make that dude wear a condom and better yet love please get on some birth control. This is your life we're talking about here and I feel that it's worth taking the extra steps to keep you out of harms way.
I wish you the best of luck little one. Don't be blind little sister. I know that feelings may be increasing for this dude but don't let that be the steping stone to a down fall. I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. I won't let him touch me without a condom and I take the pill every day. I'm sure he'd love to do it with out one but I don't want to take any chances ya know. And if this dude starts talkin like he don't want to wear one anymore....Tell him he won't get laid with out one. It's your choice love.
I wish you the best of luck.
2006-07-17 17:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by ilah23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. I heard from my husband that it just feels thousand times better without condom but that doesn't mean that the guy cares for you per se. You have to do what's smartest for you.I hope you are on pill at least. Sorry to be blunt.
2006-07-17 17:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by Donna M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound harsh, but it is the truth, believe me or not. He one, is very selfish and only thinking of himself. Because sex feels much better to a man, without a condom. But, he could be giving you a disease or and this brings me to two, because he wants to get you pregnant, and trap you into being his forever. While he is free to do who and what ever he wants! Good luck to you!
2006-07-17 17:42:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jeanne 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure what it means other than that you need to be worrying about pregnancy and STDs, if you aren't sure he doesn't have any! You should never go without protection. Hopefully he just forgot, because if he deliberately didn't put one on, that was really wrong of him. Good luck!
2006-07-17 17:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first rule of sex: DO IT WITH YOU GOSH DANG MARRIED PARTNER! and condoms do the same as a 'do not swim' sign on the titanic. less than nothing. try holding water in your non-webbed hands. same concept
2006-07-17 17:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be interested to know too. I would think that he was planning on staying with me for some time, but he might want kids too, and if you don't I wouldn't let that happen again.
2006-07-17 17:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by n0love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he want's child
2006-07-17 17:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by rohit_dosti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋