2006-07-17 16:54:47 · 13 answers · asked by Ronald P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because girls overlook all of the good qualities nice guys possess and just look at you like a friend, nothing more, nothing less.
2006-07-17 16:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by big_j_gizzy 4 · 22⤊ 7⤋
This might sound mean, but a lot of nice guys can come across as clingy and weak willed. They tend to hide behind the "I'm a nice guy, it's the girls who have the problem" motto and don't take anytime to examine how they interact with the opposite sex. Check out these articles, they can be harsh, but if you really want to see how women think about it, it's a good start. You might think that these articles are attacking you, and perhaps they are to a certain degree, but the overall message is trying to help guys like you. Best of luck.
http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/ng.shtml
2006-07-18 00:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're sitting on your backside waiting for life to come around to you. Nice guys finish last because they're too depressed and awkwardly shy to get in the game in the first place. Get some confidence and get out there, and you won't have to finish last again.
2006-07-17 23:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not there are many ladies/girls looking for a nice guy. I think in my opinion only that looks plays a part for some, of course there does need to be an attraction which I firmly believe. But most women love a great personality,sense of humor,honesty,faithful, and a loyal guy.
2006-07-18 00:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by ok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because girls are dumb as...well you know... at younger ages. They look for the studly bad boy and us nice guys are the "friends" that get all the gory details and who tell us that we are actually the perfect guy. Well about 28-30 I noticed I didn't give a crap anymore and suddenly I am getting all the hot ones that I used to wish for. Crap if I know why. Try taking up something that will interest the girls, guitar, painting, martial arts. Somrthing that will intrigue them. Good luck and don't worry...it's coming.
2006-07-18 00:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by Andy D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that you finish last, Even though it seems that way...You just have to be patient because remember the phrase: The best comes to those who wait. You are a teriffic person and anyone would be lucky to have you! So dont let it get you down sweetie!
2006-07-18 00:04:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice means boring to them.
Girls are very immature when it comes to judgements.
Thats why the rate of single motherhood is rising faster and faster.
They choose based on "hotness" and "humor" and usually end up with a one night stand of an azzhole guy.
2006-07-18 00:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book "the nice Guy Syndrome" you will see why
2006-07-18 00:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by stratisnj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because da stupid girl dat hurt u didnt c how "nice" u are, but there will b sum1 dat apreciates u later on.
2006-07-17 23:59:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, i know how ya feel, but i'm the same and things are actually finally getting better, they will for you too, hang in there my brother!
2006-07-17 23:57:58 · answer #10 · answered by Max C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably cause your so nice
2006-07-17 23:58:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋