I'm lost..hurt and mad at myself..I did a bad thing that i feel so sorry for...I asked this girl out and she said yes to me..I was thrilled and happy..After that i never did anything..I never called her and i never took her anywhere..Even though i said i would..I liked her soooo much.the thing was i was scared..i was nervous i didn't know what the next step was so i let time fly.For about 3 months i just pretended nothing ever happen..I didn't know what to do.. I was confuse...I just kept on thinking and thinking till now..I called her today and tried to explain what happened and apologized..I asked for a second chance and asked her out again...I'm a retard i know....I feel so bad..i wanna cry...I think i hurt her..Her answer was "I don't know" "Sort of yes" Do u think she still likes me??? If so how can i make it up to her??? If not what should i do?? I"M AN IDIOT!!! I feel soooooooo bad..Please help me if u can...I'm only 16 and it's hard for me to express my feelings sometimes....
2006-07-17 16:53:55 · 19 answers · asked by I_Like_Clementines 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are absolutely correct! You are a BIG IDIOT!!! A jerk also if I may add. Enough of the compliments. Go to her and make it up to her. I never heard of a guy turning down a girl he got the hots for. Start by giving her chocolates and flowers. Then ask her for a simple dinner, movies or take her to concerts you both like. Man, you blew it big time. Better hurry before she lost interest in you. 3 months is a very long time and she may think you really don't care about her at all and just making fun of her. Go out now!!! Get her dude! Give us a reply if you are making progress!
2006-07-17 17:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by Trixter 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, i think you are a dork. If you like this girl so much what the hell was the waiting about? What were you scared of? This is how you know that you dont really like her. Its only right if it comes natural, theres a reason why you let three months pass. Let it go and meet someone else because now this is sort of a forced issue in order for you to try and make up for being an asshole.
2006-07-17 23:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by whatsername_04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers and chocolates, explain the truth about what happened, and have fun together - see a movie with her and let her pick. Pay attention to the movie so you can discuss it with her afterwards. If all goes well, she may give you another chance. If she doesn't, then considerate it a lesson learned in life, and move on. We all have to learn these things one way or another. The important thing is that you learned the lesson and you'll never make that mistake again. Anyway, good luck. I think honesty is most important here.
2006-07-18 00:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by James F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, stop beating yourself up.....we all make mistakes and miss the bus from time to time. Secondly, ask if you can stop by her house to visit her. Explain that you would like to talk to her. If she seems hesitant, be patient. Call her on a regular basis, but show some self control. Be honest with her and yourself. Let things happen naturally.
And, if you've exhausted every avenue after this, and she doesn't respond, then look at yourself and knowing that you honestly tried. It's true when they say "better to have loved and lost, than not at all".
2006-07-18 00:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she's going to be non-committal, son, you've shown her nothing to prove that you will show up this time either. You did hurt her, but if you'll be honest with her about why you did what you did, she will appreciate you telling her. And when you tell her, be a man about it, don't get all wishy-washy. Tell her you screwed up, but you know you did, and you're taking care of it. I promise you, if she's agreeing to let you take her out, then she'll take what you tell her to heart. Girls want guys who can talk about their emotions, but they don't want their guys to be their girlfriends, so just stay self-assured while you tell her.
Yes, you have given yourself a hill to climb, but it doesn't sound like you've blown it yet. Just don't you dare stand her up again.
On a personal note, I once did the exact same thing you did when I was your age, but didn't have the guts to go back and make it right, so yeah, be mad at yourself for what you did, but give yourself some credit for what you're doing about it now.
2006-07-18 00:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that was stupid, but before you try to go out on a date with this girl, you need to explain yourself to her, just like you did here. You have a hard time expressing things, and she deserves to know that if you are going to continue to pursue her. Be real and tell her, then wait and see what happens.
2006-07-17 23:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by rufnready 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok she probably thinking youll back out again.. Shes so close to forgetting you altogether because its not nice to be treated that way..
Heres what you do .. dont plan anything and have her worry that you wont show.. Have a same day or hour away date.. Less time for you to back oiut and for her to freak out..
Call her .. Lets meet here in an hour.. or ill come by and lets go for a walk .. that simple hon..
Good luck..
2006-07-18 00:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by Tracii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you ask her out and if she says yes then the hard part is over with. At least this way you know she is still interested enough to say yes.
2006-07-18 00:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by caution2sxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still a young man, and it is natural to be unsure of yourself. She does still like you, girls are diffrent. I am sure she appreciated your apology and she probably called all her friends later that night and told them everything. But if you ask her out again , youd better go through with it... they say 3rd time is a charm, but not in the case of relationships.
2006-07-17 23:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by c g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
print your question out, and give it to her.
"The truth will set you free"
If you tell her how nervous you are, that will get it off your chest and then you can just laugh about it together.
But next time, you BETTER not stand her up, or she definately won't give you a 3rd chance.
2006-07-18 00:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by jugglaman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋