A lot of relationships end because one thing...change! People are one way @ the beginning of a relationship, and half way in, the "real" them comes out or they change.
1st.. continue to be the person they fell in love with. Changing forces them to have to get to know a whole new you, and they might not like it.
2nd..pay attention. Do "the little things". Surprising them everyday gets old, it gives them nothing to look forward to. Keep them guessing when the next surprise will be. (i.e. Monday draw them a bath.. Thursday have dinner reservations for a romantic evening)
3rd.. don't be so "available". Distance does make the heart grow fonder. Calling them all day everyday gives you no conversation at the end of the day. Give them their space and let it pull you two closer with passionate conversation.
4th.. (this is only for those that enjoy a little confrontation) be a little combative. Start up a little tiff, nothing serious, but something that the two of you don't quite see eye-to-eye on. A little, fun argument can be just the release you two need. Make it fun and playful.
5th.. always find new ways to love them. Finding new ways to keep the fire going for them will do nothing for you if you allow your love for them to grow stale. Keep yourself interested and loving each moment also.
2006-07-17 17:09:45
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answered by PseudoQuasiX 3
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Love is continuous as long as you have the three important ingredients. All three not one or two but all three. Trust,Communication and Sex.These 3 share together from your soul to your partners and vice versa. Other words u r soulmates bestfriends every minute of every hour of everyay is foreplay, sexual,nonsexual have 24/7 and love will be infinite
2006-07-17 17:02:31
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answered by areez 1
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I am married 20 years and although things hit the rocks at times you each should have independent pursits so that when you do something together whether it be going out to a show or making love it is something to look foward to. Also each time you make love throw him a curve do something unexpected to exite him and encourage him to do the same.
2006-07-17 16:57:13
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answered by stratisnj 3
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Love. Simple thing but most people, can't just do that.
The other is to keep him excited by pleasing him everynight of the week. Spice it up. When he comes home from work be naked and waiting for him in a hot tube or some where.
2006-07-17 16:53:54
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answered by Anonymous
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it is obviously a question for the coronary heart. First their are 2 solutions. the 1st is love and the 2nd is dedication. First enable me clarify love. Love is a sacred feeling that defines a dating. without love their could be no longer something. dedication is determining diffrences for the extra desirable of the couple. or possibly employing ethos. the component im getting at is that no couple is whithout their issues in spite of the shown fact that it is the affection and dedication that keeps them jointly.
2016-11-02 06:22:08
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answered by Anonymous
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Do new things together that you wouldn't think of doing both in and out of bed. Experimenting is the best way to keep the relation alive and full of life.
2006-07-17 16:55:49
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answered by Anonymous
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Develop interests together, Talk kiss give foot rubs ( non sexual) generally care about your partner
2006-07-17 16:54:07
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answered by Conservative Texan 3
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be silly....its cute and keeps the friendship part of a marriage or any relationship going
2006-07-17 16:53:46
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answered by kumquat.2004 3
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Be honest,open, patient,and fearless when it comes to sex and non sexual things
2006-07-17 16:55:39
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answered by Qu'ee Roxx 1
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