Why is it that small girls usually don't like guys that are overweight, even if he's the nicest guy?

Question

I'm not really talking about guys that are over 300lbs and considered obese. Guys who are average maybe 5'-7" and250lbs. It just seems that no matter how nice I am, I either get ignored or end up being just friends. I'm attracted to small petite girls cause I'm not a very tall guyand I keep praying that one of them I meet will over look the extra weight and like me for me. Hope this helps explain my question.

Answer 1

you know what, there's really nothing wrong with your weight or your height. it doesnt matter. you see, i am a petite and small girl (5'1" and 100lbs) and the love of my life is 5'11" and weighs 253lbs before. and i find completely nothing wrong with it. he was like that even before we became lovers. what really mattered to me is not what i saw in the outside but what i found out in the inside. he is a sweet and nice guy, like you are.

you said that you kept praying that one of them might overlook that?--and yes you're right that you're asking that in prayer bcoz that really works. and HE does answer our prayers..but HE does so in HIS perfect timing. so maybe what's wrong is that it isnt the right time for you to be having this RIGHT girl yet, thats why HE hasnt given her to you just yet.

i didnt say that you stop praying..but keep on asking until HE will give what you're asking for. that's how it works. so dont be worried that the girls you're interested with just dont like you, because you deserve the best and they're not the best for you. in God's time, you will soon meet the RIGHT girl for you and you will like and love her even more than you are attracted to these girls right now. and she will love you just the way you are...not so much for what you can do or what you can give.....BUT SIMPLY JUST FOR THE WAY YOU ARE.c",)

Answer 2

I'm 5'-8 and 120lbs, i don't like to exercise,and i love junk food so i have to work really hard to maintain what i consider an attractive figure.Although i hate to exercise i will go for a run if i decide to eat that extra slice. I know I'm not the petite girl your phrasing this question to but i feel if i work hard at maintaining my body and health the person I'm with should do the same. You may not be obese but your twice my size, and probable couldn't keep up with me. I know that sounds mean but it's how i feel. Why don't you try turning some of that fat into muscle. there is noting wrong with a thick guy, I'm not talking about getting riped, just firm.

Answer 3

It's not you, it's society (global)! You can't hide from it or change it, the only thing you can do or should I say there are several things you can do - 1. lose weight 2. accept it and live a life of misery, hating all of humanity 2. not take it personally and get on with your life or 3. keep looking for that girl who will accept you as is; might be tough but in the long run well worth it. God Bless! P.s. you might want to take a hard look at yourself and decide to get in the best shape you can with the body given to you. That doesn't mean crash diet, Atkins or south beach - just eat healthier, take a walk couple times a week, watch the fatty foods, they slow you down and cause major problems

Answer 4

maybe it is all about genetics, they could be looking for a guy that helps their children grow tall, not wide.

but then there is the other side, i am getting bald and i know have more success with woman than before and i dont think it is because they like to have bald children... or maybe they do, but only for the first year.

so in conclusion, try a different approach, dont try to be too friendly because that's what you are going to end up being, just a friend. some people value their friends higher than they do their partners. look confident and dont give up, you'll find something.

Answer 5

My experience would dictate that most petite women are attracted to tall, slim men. But, keep in mind that these girls' attraction is purely physical. I would have to say that they are really mature either. I would say that the women in your case are not in the mature stage of relationship development in which they value a sensible, all-round, good-natured guy. They will only turn around once they have been dumped by that tall Prince Charming and starting running to you. But, remember, like Mike Jones, "Back then, you didn't want me" once your heart is broken "you're all on me."

Answer 6

That is so not true I have many girlfriends that would not have a skinny guy next to em'. I guess it's all about the girls you are going after. Sounds like you are attracted to a certain type. Keep searching and don't change yourself for anyone....she will come along. Like my mom always said there is a lid for every jar, she's not far. Good luck.

Answer 7

because some women (and men for that matter) are small minded and don't realize that their looks will soon go then all will be left are their ugly personalities. But there are some good women (and again men) out there that don't care about the superficial stuff and look deep into a person for a good soul with a nice personality. Don't worry someday your princess will come...but you will have to kiss a lot of frogs to get there. i wish you all of the luck in the world. :)

Answer 8

HAHAH (points finger and laughs some more) HAHAH

PS - 5'7" 250 lbs is more than chubby amigo. Go on a diet if you want to improve your odds of getting some puzzy.

At least you tried dude. Some guys never even go up to the girl they like (they're the ones that end up gay).

And finally, you say that you're "attracted to small petite girls". Well guess what? I'm attracted to Playboy centerfolds but I'm stuck with a skanky trailer trash whore. Sometimes we just gotta take the hand dealt to us. Good luck finding Miss Piggy.

Answer 9

I am not petite, but I love a chubby guy. Thereis nothing sexier than a cute round-faced guy with a chubby tummy and freckles. One of my best friends weights 98 lbs and her fiance weighs at least 275 or 300, they look cute together, and she is very pretty. Maybe the girls you are meeting are superficial. Try meeting smart girls at bookstores, libraries, art museums, etc. Good luck.

Answer 10

Maybe is because you are choosing the wrong kind of women, no matter what a man looks like he always has to be looking at the skinny girls, why not a chubby girl or a fat girl, anyone of them who can make you happy and visaversa.

Answer 11

It's probably not really all about them. I've always found that men without confidence were okay to be friends with but I would never consider dating them. If this is true about you, then maybe you should take a look inside yourself and figure out what it is that makes you feel that you are unattractive and try to fix it.