How can I impress a girl who has already said no to going out with me?

Question

A girl I met at a martial art club I go to joined the demo team of which I am a part of and I happen to think she is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. I've been getting to know her for quite a long while now and she thinks I'm funny and cool. She has my mobile number, my MSN account and seems to follow me around (seemingly to grab my attention). I've already told her I LIKE HER like her, but she replied with a "maybe we should just be friends". Although we are really good friends at the moment I just wish there was some way of making her like me enough to want to go that 1 step further with me. I'm not one of those freaky "only in it for sex" guys but being 17 now and never having at least 1 girlfriend in my life, I'd like to know just how special a kiss really is.

Answer 1

http://www.daylon.com/dating/

that might help a bit.

Answer 2

Women hate someone who gives up after the first try and will call the cops on you if you try it more than 3 times. You only have one more shot at this and you have to make it count. It has to be the right timing. That's the most important thing, because it influences their answer. Women like someone who's unique to be honest with you. Looks will only get you so far, because it'll make your INITIAL chances alot better. If you walk upto a woman in a bar and try to pick her up with some cheesy line, you better hope that she thinks you're hot, and that may not even work. Try doing something different to impress her.

Answer 3

You want the answer.....this may not be the answer you are looking for or the answer you would expect. Never try to impress a girl....it only makes you weak and foolish. If she says no....then take that as a no....however, try to impress her by doing things that are not directly shown to her. Always be in control buddy...by you trying to impress her...you are giving away your control. You must not let her get to you man....I'm in the same predicament right now. I'm not saying don't care about her....just don't try to impress her....however act as if she is already impressed by you and go from there.

Answer 4

Respect her wishes and play hard to get...like you aren't interested. Talk to other girls, that might get her jealous and make her want you more. If that doesn't work, then she really does just want to be friends. Besides, she might like you enough to not want to ruin it by having a relationship with you. Alot of the times, that happens. So, consider yourself special.

Answer 5

From the mixed messages she's giving it sounds like she might already have a boyfriend (?) You've told her how you feel. You don't deserve to be toyed around with. You should find someone who naturally wants to be with you, someone who you don't have to convince. Good luck to you.

Answer 6

I would continue to hang around with her if you enjoy each others company. I would tell her how you feel. If she still wants to be friends, I would look for someone else.

Answer 7

Date or bring around a hotter, cooler chick... women always like a guy more when your already taken/liked by another.

Answer 8

i dont think she is interested in that kind of friendship, so invite her to a movie or a coffe nothing like a date so she can see how you really are and see what happens, just dont get your hopes up.

Answer 9

Hang out with her, and find someone else to date. She'll know she's not the only one. If she wants to go out with you, she'll let you know. She was already honest with you.

Answer 10

I know exactly what your going through, and unfortunately there's not much you can do if she wants to be just friends.

Answer 11

find a different girl and have this one help you get her