how can i tell my boyfriend that i'm not ready fo rthe next step
2006-07-17 16:23:09 · 13 answers · asked by KaRiSsA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him, if he does not understand then you should not be with him
2006-07-17 16:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by beccasmom1224 3 · 7⤊ 4⤋
Tell him you are not ready for the next step
2006-07-17 23:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing that i learned in previous experiences with the opposite sex is to always be straight forward.It might be hard but its a waste of time Bsing and beating around the bush. Just tell him, whats the worst he can do, break up with you? and if that's the case then you might as well drop him now cause hes not worth your time. if a man cant wait for you then he cant do nothing for you and your well being is not in his interest
2006-07-17 23:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by Qu'ee Roxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say " I am not ready for the next step." If he can't handle it, your next step should be to move on.
2006-07-17 23:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by thebushman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him.
Not that he will handle it well, but they expect us to handle whatever they choose to tell us or not tell us, so lay it out and take the consequences.
If he thinks it over and decides your what he wants, he will work things out on his end,, if not,,you weren't ready anyway, so there~!
2006-07-17 23:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come straight out and tell him. Dont beat around the bush about it the more direct the better, He should understand.
2006-07-17 23:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him. just the next time you see him, just wait for a quit moment between you 2, and hold his hand and just say it. he will respect your opinion if he really loves you.
2006-07-17 23:27:01 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Addicted to Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question hon. And if he can't respect that then he is not the right guy for you. Look I know it is easy for me to say that but you have to have enough respect for yourself to be honest with him. good luck
2006-07-17 23:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by trouble comes a knockin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a quiet location, and just tell him what's in your heart. Afterwards, stick with it.
2006-07-17 23:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by Mike's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I'm not ready for the next step." - how is that?
2006-07-17 23:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him and do not let him bully you into doing anything you're hot ready for.
2006-07-17 23:25:13 · answer #11 · answered by serenity seeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋