Can a man and a woman be friends WITHOUT sex being an issue? Example: If they find eachother attractive and talk about everything ( even sexual relations with other people)
Will having sex together eventually become an issue with them?
Could you honestly have a "friend" relationship with someone you found completly attractive?
2006-07-17 16:22:59 · 18 answers · asked by sadie1_9_99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have many non-sexual girlfriends been friends for years and yes I find them very attractive but we keep that away from our friendship we all know that if we had sex it could damage the great friendship we have. This was done because of the openess we share. we have had many sexual conversations which i find interesting as they have. but when we talked about a more personal relationship we agreed that it just wouldnt work and it has worked.
2006-07-17 16:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
A man and a woman cannot be just friends, because it would not work out. Every guy will think of having sex with a friend at one time or another. But to a girl, having a guy friend, she would not think anything of it. Girls are very innocent when it comes to that matter. Eventually having sex will be an issue to them because the tension between them will arise unexpectedly. When two people are attractive with each other, they cannot be friends, because something will bind to happen.
2006-07-17 23:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by remi V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that as long as the attraction is there the possibility of sex will always be there. You have to chose whether or not the friend ship is more important then sex. I went through something like that and the attraction was always there, but nothing ever happen and we were great friends fro many years until I had to move. And I tell you what I don't regret it because the friendship was so awesome.
2006-07-17 23:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can certainly remain friends without ever having sex. In my experience, though, if they do have sex it is usually much more difficult for a man to remain friends than a woman.
2006-07-17 23:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by rando_59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I could. But I would sure wish that if she could sit and talk to me about that and see that I'm helping her with this relationship. That maybe someday. But if nothing ever happened I would still be her friend and still give her good honest input. But once a woman starts talking to me about my point of view about a relationship. It is really hard not to fall in love with me.
2006-07-17 23:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can be just friends with a guy. My best friend has been a girl for the past, i dunno 5 years, we have never even wanted each other. I have another friend who is a girl, she always calls me her "temptation" and whatnot, and shes attractive, but we would never have sex. Especially because were both in relationships with people we love. So yeah, its possible. I'm with my gf, shes with her bf, and we're still great friends, and don't even close to want each other
2006-07-17 23:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having sex with other people and found that friend attractive than i belive you could be friend with benefits by having sex and being best friends
2006-07-17 23:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by romeo_21_nc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh yeah, its hard if you are a guy thoughor a girl. Ive been on both sides. I was freinds with a girl for a long time then all of a sudden I had feeling for her and she told me to F off (not really, but really) Then I was freinds with this girl since highschool, she stopped by one day, we got high and she asked me, Does weed make you horney, im like yeah, and she gave me head. I still talk to her, but only if i run into her in town. Kinda ruined ya know :( Im still freinds with this one woman, shes a little older than me but really hot. She's came on to me when when we've been messed up but Ive stopped it, she got mad at the time, but called me later and said she ws thankful, so she's still cool. Its hard is what Im saying. I like girl "friends" they hook you up with other girls!
Dude below me is right, sex will mess it up.
2006-07-17 23:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am in a friend relationship like that. You can always be friends without it getting physical. All you have to do is resist temptation.
2006-07-17 23:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always think it is great to be friends first and continue even if you desire eachother and want to move on. Just discuss everything before hand, good luck to you both.
2006-07-17 23:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by angel_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋