I have been dating her for near 3 years and known the other girl for about that time. Early on the girl flirted with me and I rightly caused problems but since then we have because totaly non-sexual friends and she even has a boyfriend of her own. However my grilfriend is still jealous when I talk to her. I love my girlfriend and this sounds like a immature highschool problem but I want this resolved because I want me and her to be able to grow in our relationship.
2006-07-17 16:15:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love your girlfriend drop your friend. Otherwise it will never work - I know.
2006-07-17 16:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriends sounds as if she doesn't want you having any female friends.
If you spend a lot of time talking to your female friend, you may want to cut back on that somewhat. I'm not saying drop her, but limit the calls you receive and make. Women like to know they're your number one priority.
With that said, she shouldn't be spending a lot of time talking to the male friend also. You should be her number one priority also.
Everyone needs friends. You can't be under your mate all the time....yall will get tired of each other quickly.
2006-07-17 16:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one. Essentially, your girlfriend doesn't trust you, sad to say. Do you spend a lot of time with the other girl? Maybe cut down on that, and keep your time with her during group situations. And do you pay a special type of attention to your friend that you don't with your girl? Try to see what may be bothering your girl specifically about your friendship. Good luck!
2006-07-17 16:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by CC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, show her lot's of respect by placing bounderies on your relationship with your friend. Good bounderies would be, only seeing her when your girlfriend is around for a while. At least until she is comfortable. Secondly, Do you go to church? Do you read the bible? If not, then start. God says build your house on the rock. He is not mean that literally in the since you may think. He means build your house on him. he is the rock. He is a solid foundation to build any relationship on. God bless!
2006-07-17 16:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by bobthebuilder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk with out argueing about it.
imagine if it was the other way around. would you mind?
i think as long as it doesnt effect ur relationship then u can carry on being friends, but keep ur friendship at a distance, or try getting the two of them to go out for a drink? that way she knows shes not a threat.
2006-07-17 16:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by lovelygeorgeoussexy1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your g/f is responsible for her own reactions and emotions. You should be allowed to have female friends that you are absolutely positively not interested in. If you toss your friend, your g/f won't learn and you'll face this problem every time you have a female friend. She's insecure and needs to talk about her feelings and not what "you're doing to her". It's her reaction.
2006-07-17 16:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your gf your feelings EXACTLY about her. Tell her that that other woman means NOTHING to you and she's the only girl in your life. Tell you gf that the girl is just a neutral friend. Like that if she was a guy it would be no different...
Hope that helped! :)
Good Luck! :)
2006-07-17 16:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by Viola Dragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly speaking, the person whom u r claiming 2 b ur girlfriend.. is not ur girlfriend.Coz, if she doesn't have minimum faith in u .. then how can she b ur girlfriend ? Someone who really know u 'n really trust u can only b ur girlfriend .
2006-07-17 16:21:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has to learn to trust you or there is not a very good future in your relationship.. trust is a big part of a relationship.. tell her that you are just friends and that she has to trust you.. if she loves you and believes in you then she should trust you and not be so jealous.. jealousy can ruin a good relationship
2006-07-17 16:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, so i have had this problem, in which i was the jealous gf. i think that you should reassure her that you and your friend are still just friends, and remind her that it is her that you love. basically, just reassure her once in a while.
2006-07-17 16:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by Popsicle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋