My bf lives in AZ and i live in Cali and i love him very much
but sometimes this distance gets to me, and i wanna end everything bcuz of it, and i have tired to talk to him, but whenever i do all of those feelings melt away and feel comfortable with it, but other times so uneasy. any suggestions on what to do, on how to cope with this. and no i do not want to end it, just need ways to deal with it. so some help, PLZ
2006-07-17 16:02:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and the thing is that i don't want to break up with him, even if it is long distance, i jsut need ways to cope with the distance! thank guys
2006-07-19 12:27:32 · update #1
First i just want to tell you i really give you a lot of credit for doing the long distance thing that far away. im doing the long distance thing with my boyfriend but we are only 3 hours apart and only for the summer. YOu must love him or you would have broke up with him a long time ago. If you guys really want this to work you guys will find a way. Some things my boyfriend and i do is see each other everyother weekend. i know thats probly hard for you to do. You could write him love letters, send emails daily, text message him on his cell phone. Im sure you guys talk everyday. YOu both might want to invest money in webcams so when you guys talk online you guys can see each other. That will make things easier if you can see him on your computer daily. Im sure everything will work out.
2006-07-17 16:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by jenks1545 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a smart girl. be creative. send him letters (not emails) telling him how much you love him and what you have done in the past couple of days. also put risque pics of yourself in them and tell him to do the same. the next time you see each other, you'll appreciate it more. by the way arizona is not as far away as you think. it's like what a 1 hour and 45 minute flight? just thank god you don't live on the east coast. don't break it off!
2006-07-17 23:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by tim e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships never last for a long period of time. Eventually you need to move to him or him to you if you want it to last. Sorry, but that's just the way it is.
2006-07-17 23:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by BillyBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance is bad... hard to keep.. if ya want ya should end it and save it for a good friendship.. instead of a bad end and both sides pained
2006-07-17 23:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by ebseller25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋