we've been together for 5 years and when we broke up he started talking to her and after 3 months we got back together now she says her baby is his and he dont want to contact her and she hasnt contacted him either what should i do?
2006-07-17 15:49:47 · 5 answers · asked by Da sha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first thing is that your fiancee needs to be honest with you, if he is not honest with you, then he does not need to be your fiancee. He needs to tell you what happened with him and the other woman during the time that you were apart. Did he sleep with her? Did he use protection? (If not you may need more than a paternity test, you should have him get HIV testing as well). Is it possible that he may be the father of the other woman's baby?
Why hasn't the other woman contacted your fiancee to arrange for a paternity test? Is it that she is possibly lying to try to break up you and your fiancee. Unfortunately there may be an innocent child caught up in this triangle.
Your boyfriend needs to contact this woman and have a paternity test done. Not only would the question be resolved, you would not have to have this situation hanging over both of your heads for the next 18 years.
If the child is his, then he is morally (and legally) obligated to provide for the child. You will then need to make the decision of whether you still want this guy as your fiancee. However, the main thing is for your fiancee to "man up", take responsibility for his actions and to take steps to resolve the question hanging over everyone head.
2006-07-17 16:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she wants to demand child support from him then he should demand a paternity test. The only bad thing there is, if he is the father then it proves him to be so. If he is sure that he is not the fathe5r then he should get the test done though.
2006-07-17 22:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it alone, if they don't want to contact each other and don't want to really find out leave it alone, if she was trying to start something or trying to get money out of him that is different, but the way it is right now you will be better off leaving it alone.
2006-07-17 22:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. No 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it. if she wants him around to raise the child she will call. If he decides he needs to be part of the childs life, he will contact her. Until then stay out of it...and pray
2006-07-17 22:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by izzi0903lou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you going do? beat that lady? have u seen n known what pax she is?
2006-07-17 22:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by pink r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋