What is the best way to get revenge on a girlfriend that made a lunch date with a guy?

Question

She already knows I know about it because I overheard them talking on the phone and she then refuses to give up the date. I found out she just met the guy about a week ago at a card game with her female friend. I know his phone number. should I call him to tell him that she is in a relationship or what?

Answer 1

If you find the need to get revenge, you shouldn't be in a relationship. If she's making dates with a guy she just met, coming from a girl, she's probably up to no good. She's either trying to make you really jealous or she's messing around on you. You need to evaluate how important this relationship is. There's not much trust and you need to talk to her about it. If she's refusing to give up going on dates with other guys, I think it's time for you to find another girl.

Answer 2

If she is not being completely forthcoming with you about when and where, then you need to break it off. There is no reason a girlfriend can't have lunch with a guy...I have way more guy friends than female friends but I was always honest about who it was, where we were going, etc...if she won't tell you then something else is possibly going on. If you know the guy's number then yes, I would call him. Don't be malicious, just state your problem and ask what their intentions are together at this "lunch."

Answer 3

You have to trust your girlfriend. Tell her how you feel and let her explain. If she seems to be insensitive about it then you can take other measures, but most likely if you just explain how you feel (which is communicating in a way a girl can understand even if it's not the usual male way), she'll probably be flattered and explain that nothing is going on, or she'll cancel the lunch date, or maybe you could offer to tag along. Like if this guy is really just a friend, maybe you want to meet him too.

Answer 4

Well dont be a dick to the guy, cause he will still go to the day date and prolly tell your girlfriend that your a dick and she might get p/o at you for getting so jealous or something and think your over protective. If he is just a friend than thats it and nothing will happen, the best answer I could give you is to do what you think is right, cause I dont know the full extent of the situation. Good luck bro. let her know you care.

Answer 5

Is she looking at it as a DATE, date, or just going to lunch with a friend? If you're just looking for revenge and don't care about staying together, yeah, call him, and tell him that. Also slash her tires and throw rocks through her bedroom window at 3 AM for several nights in a row.

Answer 6

Your revenge may be to locate yet another female and tutor her how satisfied you're with out her.per chance the subsequent female will be better than the only you had.do not play video games including her as transferring on is area of existence.

Answer 7

It depends on your relationship with your girlfriend. Do you trust your girlfriend? Maybe the guy works at a company she wants to interview at. If your girlfriend is that fascinated by another guy, then let her go. But perhaps your girlfriend just wants to have lunch with someone with no romantic motives.

Answer 8

Grow up... why seek revenge if she's your girlfriend. If she hurt you, let her go and move on with your life. They say the best revenge is to live a good life. Perhaps your immaturity is what drove her to someone else.

Answer 9

No, he may not know about u plus who knows what she's told him, so it's not his fault, he's just being a guy who's going out to lunch with a girl ( who he may not have known has a b/f) So u need to talk with her.

Answer 10

You could also make a lunch date with a guy .