Both my brothers are getting married to two wounderful girls. I love them like they were my sisters it is just now they wont have time for any of us anymore. They will be with there wifes. And I love them I want to spend as much time with them as possible! What to do?
2006-07-17 14:57:45 · 15 answers · asked by Tiff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You have to learn to accept this is a fact of growing up. Maybe you should try dating yourself?
2006-07-17 15:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have three brothers all married and 2 of the three are cool and we either talk to eachother or see eachother weekly, sometimes more the other one well he was never into family much. He's a lone cowboy. So if you're cool with your brothers now they'll still be cool with you after marriage.
2006-07-17 22:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by what do you think? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things should remein the same, but ya, they will need more alone time. You need to reapect this, someday you will marry too and need your alone time.
As the years pass as a family theways and days of your family will evolve and change. This is a healthy way a family grows.
Be happy for the family ad see how it evolves over the years.
2006-07-17 22:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first thing you should do is stop focusing on all the negativity and think of all your good times that you've had and that are still to come. Next you should sit them down and explain how you feel but remember to be happy that they've found someone that they love and loves them back and when you think about it isn't that what counts.
2006-07-17 22:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by Bricee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your brothers be happy, marriage is a big change granted they will spend less time with you but life goes on and just think you'll have nieces and nephews soon!!
2006-07-17 22:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats to your Happy family.it is great feelings to have both borthers marrying at the same times.You should understand & grownup once we are settle down with life, we have to part from our family but you can always visit them whenever they are free & available for you.Remember they need their own privacy.
2006-07-17 22:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by Goosters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you are extreamly happy for this and you know they will be busy but you really want to continue seeing them and doing things with them and their new wives. Then ask if they would be willing to occasionally come tou your house for dinner or get together for game nights or something like that.
2006-07-17 22:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by PrincessB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will see more of them than u know.try doing a family dinner night once a week or having a family movie night or something 2 include all the newlyweds n such.
2006-07-17 21:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, keep in contact as much as possible..but dont be the annoying single person bugging the married couples..they want a life on their own togather im sure.
2006-07-17 22:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them some time... there's a period called honey moon period... let that time pass... then when every thing will come back to normal you'll find a lot of time to spend together as a family!!!
2006-07-17 22:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by farogh_anjum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right. Things will change. They will still have time for their family (you!), though. Now you'll have even more family and more love and you'll get used to this change.
2006-07-17 22:03:42 · answer #11 · answered by Nic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋