we have been dating for 4yrs, recently he went to college and we stopped dating. When we got back together, he was dating someone else but left her to get back with me, that's when all hell broke loose she calls him all the time, send messages as if though they recently talked,etc. His family says that she keep callin and bothering him, I spoke to her a couple times and she always say they are dating I am tired and need some help. How do I know for sure??? Because something is telling me to believe him but stuff keep happening
2006-07-17 14:43:45 · 10 answers · asked by lovesick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your gut is telling you he is cheating then majority of the time its gonna be right. If you wanna know then ask him a bunch of questions now you gotta pay attention with this cause if he gets defensive or dismissive as in a (Can you please drop it) something is up. Also you can ask him to do something about the issue, but if he doesn't make an attempt to improve or shows he cares, then grab your shoes and get outta there.
2006-07-17 14:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by thoughtsofastranger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If his family is saying that she's bothering him, then the chick is probably just being an obsessive stalker. If you have no real proof then you shouldn't worry about it. If you still have that gut feeling that he's cheating- break up with him. If he's stressing you out that much, it's not good for you and is not a healthy relationship. You'd be better off in the longrun.
2006-07-17 21:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by ignoresociety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could very well be lying, trying to break you two up. A lot of people are conniving like that. I would suspect she is lying if his family says she's been bothering him. If you really trust him and think you have reason to trust him, give him the benefit of the doubt. That's your boy, can you trust him? Do you want to let a crazy girl win? When you have evidence that he is actually cheating (or just feel like he's not being honest), confront him about it and get that taken care of.
2006-07-17 21:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by Nic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe your heart if you beleive he is cheating then he is .You already know this you just have to except it .As a female we already know.We just hope that it's not true but you have to be true to your heart b/c it doesn't lie,4yrs is along time but if you can trust him let it go .There anything w/o trust.
2006-07-17 21:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by sweetie37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let him out of your sight.... Just got to get in control of everything. Buy another phone or SIM for you cellphone. Cut any communication they can have.
2006-07-17 21:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by jox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be blind he is cheating and if he is not he is emotionally even if not physically by not being there for you by talking to her all the time it seems like he is having his cake and eating it to like having a relationship with you and her to they always say love is blind believe me i learned this the hard way.
2006-07-17 21:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by i love my dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you, i wouldn't bother myself about it since you are not engaged to each other neither are married to each other. you boyfriend is a player; you are not stupid i suppose since you knew about the constant 4n calls and txmsg's, you boyfriend has not decided to be a man yet. he still want to play around with other girls, he still want to be a he goat and not a man yet.
2006-07-17 22:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by kc4rl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call "Cheaters". Bust him on national TV.
2006-07-17 21:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could be lying...trust your gut, women have intiution...if it feels bad, then break up.
2006-07-17 21:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by Alyssa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spy on him
2006-07-17 21:45:05 · answer #10 · answered by Brown skin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋