Why do people let their children embarrass them?

Question

I am so sick of seeing these stupid *** ladies (usually Causcasion) that lock the door if I get too near their car but let their children embarrass the hell out of them at the store. I just left Walmart and watched this three year old take a belt and strike his mother. She just took the belt said no and he started screaming. If I would have done that my mother would have beat my ***!

Answer 1

One rule that I have put down with my kids is that if they embarass me they better be prepared to be just as embarassed or more so by me. I hate to see these rowdy, obnoxious kids with their stupid parents who let this happen,
I was at Ikea once and this little girl was being dragged down the aisle screaming and wailing by her mother. then the mother stopped and said "im gonna give you till 5" and then proceeded to count. the little girl looked at the mom as if to say "i'll help you count mommy"
the kid had parked herself on the floor and refused to move and the mother let her sit there.
Clearly a battle of wills. Needless to say, the mom lost. I wanted to pick up the kid and beat the mother with her !

Answer 2

Nice racist remark, dude. Oh and you might want to hit the "check spelling" option next time. That way you won't make yourself look like an even bigger idiot than you already did by making a slanderous racial comment. We're caucasian. Man, if I'd made a comparable comment like that about black people I'd have been reported to Yahoo for "abuse". And you know what? I will bet you everything I have that it's a "strange male" thing and not a race issue. I don't trust anyone - not even strange women. Get close to my kids and the wagons are gonna circle.

Now then, as for the kid in the Wal-Mart parking lot, well, you pretty much answered your own question there. It's WAL*MART. Did you expect to be in the company of the finest beings humanity had to offer there? The kid probably weighed 175 pounds too. Momma didn't get him the right kind of Tastycakes so he had a fit and beat her with a Faded Glory brand belt.

My kids don't even try to mess with me in public because they were raised properly. Oh and I never hit them. That's messed up.

Answer 3

They are being cautious, not because you are not the same race as them, but because you are a stranger. I lock my door if I see anyone I don't know getting too close to my car, no matter what color their skin is. You can't be too careful these days.People cannot control their children 24/7. If you were to beat your child in the parking lot of a store you would have the police called on you. Which would be more embarrasing?

Answer 4

1st I bet women of every race with lil kids ALWAYS lock the door if a strange MAN appears to get getting to close. It's NOT A RACE thing it's being a strange MALE that would cause a women to be protective so Bit** about being male not black. Most all cars have the lil lock thing on the door panal so how you are even seeing them lock the door is another ?, also on that panal are window controls and side mirror controls. You are trying to play the race card as if most white women hate and fear blacks and are poor parents, far from true. As For letting your kids act retarded in public, all kids do that. Yelling and spanking the kid will ONLY make the situation a lot worse. I have seen kids black and white run crazy in the store like wild animals. Kids have a lot of energy and have to be taught how to act beating on them dose not TEACH anything but, fear. I don't spank or yell in public and draw attention, ONCE we are in the CAR they are grounded or have a privlige like bike riding taken away or are not allowed friends over exc. Bratty kids in public make me nuts to it's part of life.

Answer 5

I dont know, maybe it was that book that that dummy DR> Spock put out that said that you need to spare the rod. I heard that alot of people read the book and that is why there are so many kids that arnt yours youd like to beat their a**. I believe in only spanking my child when he deserves it , now if he is going to hit me with something he will never do it a second time. But fortuantely I dont have a child like that. ( i only have one) I am white and my dad and mom beat my a** when I did something wrong. My dad believed in using the rod...it shows love. Apparently some parents dont love their children if they never get on to them, or all they do is scream, like screaming is going to get anywhere.....I know what you mean. But nowdays if you spank your children the kids are smart and call 911 to get you into trouble or someone else does and screams abuse....there is no middle ground anymore and that is why the prisons are so full of these children anymore.

Answer 6

because in todays society its considered wrong to spank a child. In my time, I would have had my dads leather belt beating my rear. I learned what not to do at a very young age. And I honestly believe I'm a much better person because of that. It amazes me how many kids get thrown in jail at the age of 18 because they have to face real consequences for their actions for the first time in their lives. But, not days, spanking is considered abuse, even though the child will 1) learn to behave much better, and 2) will probably not even feel the spanking after a few minutes. And for the record, waiting till you get home to "scold" the child is not as effective as embarassing the child in a public place.

Answer 7

Because beating a child in public will always draw attendsion to the parent and plus someone else will step in on the childs behalf claiming child abuse.

Btw if people lock there car door if you get near it it must be a reason, do you look like the kind of I'm going to mug you look.

Answer 8

~*~ Nowdays, most people are afraid to discipline their children.. Think about it.. If your child behaves badly in the store and you want to swat their hand or butt, you can't because someone will call the police on you.. or.. if you spank your child on the butt (normal, not extreme).. the child says "i'm gonna call the cops on you".. I'm not trying to say that children should not be protected when there is real abuse.. in my opinion, we have let this get out of control.. Now that our government protects the kids so much, it affect us parents in the way that we are allowed to raise our children.. Its almost scary sometimes because you never know who is watching/listening and what their interpretation is of the situation.. Something that is rather insignificant can get blown completely out of proportion.. Now, I am from Mexico and down there children are raised to respect others.. they are taught to respect and mind their elders meaning that an adult can reprimand them if they see them doing something wrong.. I have seen cases where teachers still swat the kids on the hands with a ruler because they are not behaving in the classroom.. I'm not saying that hitting is right.. I'm just saying that we as a society need to get back on track. We need to teach our children that it is not ok to dispect people in any way.. We need to feel as parents that it is ok to discipline our children while we are in the store, instead of being afraid that someone is going to get the wrong idea and call the police on us.. The government needs to protect those children who are/were abused and let us parents who aren't abusing our children discipline them in a non violent way...

Answer 9

Don't you think it would have been more embarrassing for mom to be stared at while she was "beating the child's ***" for typical three year old behavior??

Hitting a child for hitting only teaches them... oh yeah - to HIT.

Frankly, it's not embarrassing to be caught in a teaching moment, when everyone else who has children knows what it's like to have a three year old misbehave in a store and can empathize.

Answer 10

Why do in world there are many rapist, racist, and sexist now? Do you realize what you had said about "usually Causcasion"? It's funny how you could have at least say a parent instead of a mother, a father, black, or white. The way I see it white are not only racist....

In my local there are two children missings and a black woman in 40ish who's their babysitter stole them recently. Should I say all black women are crazy?