wanting them but they r gone & u can never have them. u feel abandoned lost u dont want to eat live everything is black cuz u misss them so much like the air u breathe u feel u cant survive without them cuz u love them so much but they dont want u & then 1 day they are gone forever.. u are so crushed u feel like dying not worth living anymore what d u do... people dont understand how i feel, have you everloved someone so much and been with them for so long after the leave u feel incomplete lost like someone took an arm and a leg from you. will i ever get back to normal or will i diefrom depression. i havent eaten in a week. my heart is so broken i dont want to wake up in the morning anymore. i want to die does anyone know how i feel? he doesnt love me and I cant make him hes gone but what about me im the one left wanting & loving someone who dont love me this life aint fair its cruel...
2006-07-17 14:20:43 · 7 answers · asked by clover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he was my BF of 5years i thought wed be forever but he dumped he told me he dont love me...
2006-07-17 14:22:46 · update #1
he was like my family we lived together he was like my husband
2006-07-17 14:23:27 · update #2
I can tell you that I've been there, and it seems like I've had a very similar experience. I was with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, I thought everything was going great, preparing to take our relationship to the next step-move in, get engaged, etc. I had no idea that he didn't feel the same way, one night he came out of nowhere told me he didn't love me and he never had. I couldn't believe it, I was in shock. I couldn't eat, couldn't sleep, I could barely breath, I couldn't work, I just cried day and night. I really thought about hurting myself bc I felt it was the only way to prove to him how much he meant to me and how much it hurt me. I was miserable for almost 2 months before I started to live for myself, and realize that I can't depend on anyone else to make me happy. You can't depend on anyone else in your life for security, comfort, love, happiness, support, etc. You are complete yourself-and if you can't realize this, you won't ever be happy in a relationship. It has taken me many months to get over what my ex has done to me, but trust me when I say that I've been there, and I am happier now than ever. Love is blind-you think you are in love with someone and when the fog clears, you realize how stupid you've been to put up with the crap. It will take you time-it's been about 9 months since my breakup, and it was a long and hard road, but I'm glad it's this way. I know it means that there is someone better for me out there. I certainly didn't feel this way when I went through the breakup, but trust me when I say this is your fate. You've had this experience, which happened for a reason, and you will soon realize that there is another plan for you, and there is someone else much better! Hang in there, you have to rely on your friends now more than ever, but just realize that in a short period of time, you will be very happy and find the man of your dreams!
2006-07-17 14:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by Rexy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh sweetie, I know EXACTLY how you feel! My ex walked out on me after six years of marriage and I felt EXACTLY the same way! I didn't eat for a week and a half. I cried and cried and I too had no one that understood how I felt. I stood up to my family for him, I helped raise his son, and still for some reason, it wasn't good enough for him. He walked out and left me a note. I don't know what to tell you except that it WILL get better. In the mean time, stay busy,busy,busy. I made a list of things to do every day to keep me busy. You CAN'T curl up in a ball and die, you have to keep going. Start excising, the weight I lost from not eating for a week was a great incentive for me. Looking good is the best revenge. Show him what he will be missing. Take this time for YOU. Just know that you aren't alone. I'm still working on myself too, if you need someone to talk to PLEASE feel free to e-mail me at carolscreaton@yahoo.com YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
2006-07-17 14:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend,
People come into our lives for a reason, season or a lifetime. You have to figure out what you have learned from this relationship. Please, please, please believe me that you will find someone BETTER.
You are not alone. This will pass. You will love again. You have to see that this was not right for you and you will find happiness again with a BETTER person. Please believe me. I feel for you girlfriend and trust me.
You are better off now and the sun will shine again even brighter. I know it's hard right now and you don't want to hear all this but trust me. I've been there more then once. I am much better off now and life goes on.
You will look back on this and wish you didn't waste time on him. But you have to process this and learn from it or you will not grow and you will make the same mistake again and again.
I know it hurts. The pain will go away. Please understand that. Try to eat and talk to someone about this. You need a support system right now. Your heart will heal and you will be stronger soon.
xoxox
L
2006-07-17 14:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I have been where you are. You must have loved him very much. All I can offer you is this: take each second as it comes.. please eat something.. drink a little.. then try to sleep.. if it won't come to you and you are awake in the early hours.. you will eventually drift off.. your life is important.. YOU ARE IMPORTANT. You sound like a very caring person. My life isn't the same.. but I go on, I have family and friends... I try to be kind to others who are suffering as my heart was broken and I see what it can do to you. I would like to know if you are ok and if you can/want to.. email me - if I can help I will. HUGS........XX An old saying.. as one door closes another will open.
2006-07-17 14:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by Chrisey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel,there is really nothing anyone can say thats going to make you feel better,you will get so tired of hearing well life goes on,time heals all wounds,and i guess it does but it really sucks in the mean time don't it.i had a boyfriend,i fell for him,he told me he loved me but he didn't ,he dumped me i was crushed.i felt just like do you know,what made it worse i saw him with someone else it hurt like hell..but the good news is you do get through it ,i don't wait for the phone to ring anymore,gave up on that.i just take it one day at a time.please don't ever say that you feel like dying over a realionship that did not work,you may feel like it but whats the point,you'll be dead his life goes on.you will get through it just hang in here okay
2006-07-17 14:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by dede2772 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to get over such a person but nothing heals a broken heart faster than NEW LOVE.
2006-07-17 14:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by Javon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there r people that made an impack on your life and you wont get over them for a while but u will in time just hang in there try to find someone new that will help a little in time you wont even think of him good luck
2006-07-17 14:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by teen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋